Amanda Lehan-Canto
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What's with these guys and this wording?
Yeah. 28 is not old. No. I get where he's at, but here's the thing, he let his resentment get too fucking far. That's the thing, it's like, he was not cool with it, and he let it get too far, and so he said a really hurtful thing. That's where he's the dickhead.
Yeah. 28 is not old. No. I get where he's at, but here's the thing, he let his resentment get too fucking far. That's the thing, it's like, he was not cool with it, and he let it get too far, and so he said a really hurtful thing. That's where he's the dickhead.
Years and years. That's why I said 28 is like...
Years and years. That's why I said 28 is like...
She's definitely struggling, she's definitely like, I will say it, it's very, this is what's hard, is when you are supporting your partner, it's very hard, you have to be very honest with yourself about what that is. Because if you're like, I love you, I'm going to support you. It's like, no, you have to be very honest what it looks like. Because resentment is going to build.
She's definitely struggling, she's definitely like, I will say it, it's very, this is what's hard, is when you are supporting your partner, it's very hard, you have to be very honest with yourself about what that is. Because if you're like, I love you, I'm going to support you. It's like, no, you have to be very honest what it looks like. Because resentment is going to build.
Because if you're having your partner come home and they're complaining, they never have any money, they're sleeping till noon, that is really stressful on the other partner who's spending a lot of money. But I just don't think either of them were super honest with each other. And she probably doesn't feel good either. I doubt she's like, yeah, I'm gonna sleep till noon and I got my sugar daddy.
Because if you're having your partner come home and they're complaining, they never have any money, they're sleeping till noon, that is really stressful on the other partner who's spending a lot of money. But I just don't think either of them were super honest with each other. And she probably doesn't feel good either. I doubt she's like, yeah, I'm gonna sleep till noon and I got my sugar daddy.
I mean, I don't know her. She probably feels shame and guilt and all that stuff. But like... I just think a lot of couples, they're not super honest with themselves. I think so many times in your relationship, you're going to be the one who's making more money at some certain point. But a lot of people handle it differently. Some people hold it over the other one's head.
I mean, I don't know her. She probably feels shame and guilt and all that stuff. But like... I just think a lot of couples, they're not super honest with themselves. I think so many times in your relationship, you're going to be the one who's making more money at some certain point. But a lot of people handle it differently. Some people hold it over the other one's head.
Some people are like, well, I've been paying for everything, so you have to do this thing with me. So it's... I just don't think the communication was given out. I just think that's a really harsh way of going about it.
Some people are like, well, I've been paying for everything, so you have to do this thing with me. So it's... I just don't think the communication was given out. I just think that's a really harsh way of going about it.
Even if you do make it, you could go all the way back to zero.
Even if you do make it, you could go all the way back to zero.
You have to be working all the time.
You have to be working all the time.
Yeah, that's why I feel like him taking care of her wasn't necessarily the right step.
Yeah, that's why I feel like him taking care of her wasn't necessarily the right step.
It's brutal. And I will say, when I first moved out here, yeah, I was working all night as a bartender, going to auditions during the day. But it made my work better because you're constantly on. You're constantly meeting people. You're constantly getting ideas and inspiration. And that's why I just like,