Amanda Lehan-Canto

Um...

To me, I think it's very tricky when someone is a breadwinner. I think you have to have multiple conversations to... Because feeling guilty, feeling shameful, feeling embarrassed, those are all real things. They're human things, and they're totally okay. But it's like, you have to have these conversations. Like...

To me, I think it's very tricky when someone is a breadwinner. I think you have to have multiple conversations to... Because feeling guilty, feeling shameful, feeling embarrassed, those are all real things. They're human things, and they're totally okay. But it's like, you have to have these conversations. Like...

You have to understand that if you're going to make this big purchase, you're in it together. There are other ways to contribute than making money. You can contribute emotionally, physically around the house. I don't know, I'm so over this. She makes more than me and I'm really insecure and I'm gonna lie. That's your relationship with your own family.

You have to understand that if you're going to make this big purchase, you're in it together. There are other ways to contribute than making money. You can contribute emotionally, physically around the house. I don't know, I'm so over this. She makes more than me and I'm really insecure and I'm gonna lie. That's your relationship with your own family.

Don't drag my accomplishments into your sad, shameful stuff.

Don't drag my accomplishments into your sad, shameful stuff.

Which makes me also think that she came in hot because I think that there was already resentment built up from her. She was like, I bought this house. You weren't ready. You never even contributed, which is also another thing. It's like, we let all these conversations go unsaid. And it builds up resentment. And I'm not saying that she's in the wrong. I get it.

Which makes me also think that she came in hot because I think that there was already resentment built up from her. She was like, I bought this house. You weren't ready. You never even contributed, which is also another thing. It's like, we let all these conversations go unsaid. And it builds up resentment. And I'm not saying that she's in the wrong. I get it.

When you're in a heated moment like that, that's essentially just completely ignoring all of your work that you've done. Totally. But this, if you guys are together, you can buy the house, but it's kind of like, what is the agreement that you guys have together in on this? Yeah.

When you're in a heated moment like that, that's essentially just completely ignoring all of your work that you've done. Totally. But this, if you guys are together, you can buy the house, but it's kind of like, what is the agreement that you guys have together in on this? Yeah.

That's a big lie.

That's a big lie.

This is a big thing that's not going to work.

This is a big thing that's not going to work.

But the thing is, not only did he lie, he just, to me, it shows a level of respect that he just doesn't have for her.

But the thing is, not only did he lie, he just, to me, it shows a level of respect that he just doesn't have for her.

Yeah, me too.

Yeah, me too.

Well, regardless, the family, the way they portrayed it, it was like, oh, he bought the house. They just changed that.