Amy Cuddy

And to sort of, to be rejected and see that they've survived, right? Yes. But rejection, the rejection that I'm talking about is a video, a TikTok video not going viral. It's not that it's, which is not the same as nasty comments, like being rejected and trolled. That's a different kind of rejection.

And to sort of, to be rejected and see that they've survived, right? Yes. But rejection, the rejection that I'm talking about is a video, a TikTok video not going viral. It's not that it's, which is not the same as nasty comments, like being rejected and trolled. That's a different kind of rejection.

I hate to say something so simple, but yes. I am just not afraid to embarrass myself. That's good. And I have to sometimes... Hold on to that, because I think it was really important for my son to see that. To me, modeling that was really important.

I hate to say something so simple, but yes. I am just not afraid to embarrass myself. That's good. And I have to sometimes... Hold on to that, because I think it was really important for my son to see that. To me, modeling that was really important.

Yeah, making mistakes, being goofy, like doing something goofy in the grocery store.

Yeah, making mistakes, being goofy, like doing something goofy in the grocery store.

Yeah, another one is being okay with like,

Yeah, another one is being okay with like,

chatting with a stranger and maybe they don't want to chat and that's fine then you move on but like why not try those i think doing those things first of all i think it's great to model that for kids but i also think it's good to do it just to see that you've survived you're fine yeah no one cares exactly no one even cares remembering this for the rest of their life you might have made somebody smile right right so

chatting with a stranger and maybe they don't want to chat and that's fine then you move on but like why not try those i think doing those things first of all i think it's great to model that for kids but i also think it's good to do it just to see that you've survived you're fine yeah no one cares exactly no one even cares remembering this for the rest of their life you might have made somebody smile right right so

Like, if you're terrified of- Well, I think that's a good one. I mean, like, chat with someone on the train or, and I know it's hard right now.

Like, if you're terrified of- Well, I think that's a good one. I mean, like, chat with someone on the train or, and I know it's hard right now.

Yeah, or like, ask someone, Ask, you know, if you're, I don't know why grocery stores seem like places where lots of silly things can happen. You know, if someone's like checking out, checking you, what do you?

Yeah, or like, ask someone, Ask, you know, if you're, I don't know why grocery stores seem like places where lots of silly things can happen. You know, if someone's like checking out, checking you, what do you?

Checking you out, but that sounds funny, checking you out. You know what I mean? Like checking out your groceries. And they are looking down and they seem, you know, grumpy.

Checking you out, but that sounds funny, checking you out. You know what I mean? Like checking out your groceries. And they are looking down and they seem, you know, grumpy.

instead of deciding they're not friendly consider the possibility that they're having a bad day and and literally like pause and say how are you you know or like try to connect with them without being intrusive make eye contact with them thank them you know make eye contact maybe they'll just be annoyed and not make eye contact back. But I feel like that kind of thing is really important to try.

instead of deciding they're not friendly consider the possibility that they're having a bad day and and literally like pause and say how are you you know or like try to connect with them without being intrusive make eye contact with them thank them you know make eye contact maybe they'll just be annoyed and not make eye contact back. But I feel like that kind of thing is really important to try.

And those are things that create sort of social benefits for others as well.

And those are things that create sort of social benefits for others as well.