Anders Ronnau

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334 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2017 last heard Feb 2017

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And it does help to realize what is going on inside of you.

But a lot of th times then that becomes the thing that you fight.

Whereas really

In my work I work a lot with what's called the positive intention.

So I always assume that there's a positive intention with every part of a person's personality.

That's a long way of saying that I think that the hand that was hitting was trying to help the child.

So when I acknowledge that to the child and ask her, so what's it what's the hand trying to help you with?

Well, it wants to hit the other person.

Yeah, what would come out of that?

Oh he'd leave or he'd stop teasing me or whatever.

And then we can have a little discussion about so the outcome that the hand wanted, the positive intention was really for you to be left alone.

And that opens up like an an acknowledgement process even to the pattern in the child that is not good.

Does that make sense?

Yeah.

The best it knew.

when it was created.

So that the hand part was created years earlier in the child.

And back then the child thought that hitting other kids was the way to go, or maybe had an experience where it worked.

And then it kind of settled in as an automatic reaction.

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