Anders Ronnau
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334 appearances
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first heard Feb 2017
last heard Feb 2017
Anders Ronnau’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So I can't really know in advance what I have to do.
Which in the beginning was terrifying to me.
I like order and structure and and whatnot.
And I've kinda freaked out every time I had to work with a child because things were so hectic and and all over the place and I had to work to figure out what was actually going on.
Right.
Now it's obviously a different situation.
But yeah, everybody's inner world is so differently laid out and and managed, if you will.
So I really can't offer anything in there.
I don't have any solutions for people or for any of my clients.
I have to figure out what's in there and help them help me figure out what will be good for them.
I d I just really listen to what comes out of their mouth.
Like I'll have a a kid coming in and we'll be talking about how they have anger fits and s and hits other other kids in school and stuff.
And the kid says, It wasn't me that hit her.
It was my hand.
And every normal, healthy parent, when they hear that, they'll be going, Oh, it's your responsibility, it's your hand, so it was you who did it.
Uh whereas I'll say, Oh wow, then it's a good thing you said that 'cause then you and I need to have it a good conversation with your hand about that.
That has a good value system that knows what's right and wrong and stuff.
And I want to talk to that whole child about the hand.
And we'll be talking about the hand, like the hand is really the perpetrator of the actions.
This is a process called externalization.
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