André Duqum
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I find this important balance of acknowledging somebody's reality and having empathy for their human emotional experience and landscape.
And also, as they're ready to hear what could be the potential projections that we are placing on our external relationships that are a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy, which these beliefs, like you've mentioned, very much so are.
We will continue to meet in reality
the things we have resistance to internally.
And so we're gonna be met with experiences that show us and reveal to us where we have resistance to what is.
If it calls for it in the moment and I can provide some sort of reflection that's supportive in that context, I will.
I also think that we have...
which is sort of contrasts a bit with the sort of understanding that certainty is more in the direction of the light of the creator.
I think that life is inherently uncertain and that our need for knowing what's going to happen in the certainty of what's going to happen in my relationships or in my life externally limits us quite drastically.
So
I definitely don't try to come saying I know all the answers or know what's going to happen.
And like finding ease in that sense of wholeness and like trust that things are unfolding in a greater way than we can currently pinpoint and connect the dots to, I think it's certainly at least just been helpful in my own journey, you know, where I want to know or have a certain level of success or an outcome that's desired.
I mean, from when I first started certain like more business focused things of a certain level of results of outcome or finances to... Especially with this, to bring this wisdom, this energy, this platform out to the world.
Yeah.
What I've, I've used, I used to set a lot of goals and, you know, we have some like loosely kind of like, we have an ideal for what we want to do this year in terms of viewership.
Yeah.
But,
we've become so process oriented and realized that by focusing on what the systems are and the root of the operation and the level of conversation, like all everything else in the results stem from doing the foundational things very well.
So, I mean, it kind of goes hand in hand with our own internal life from the physiological to the psychological and emotional lens by like taking care of the foundation of our internal experience.
Then a lot of these heightened experiences can come to us.