Andrew Huberman

Nowadays, people are pairing up later, they're getting divorced and remarrying.

It's harder to build a common narrative.

Is there any data about common narrative

good or bad, like we went through a lot, can be building as well.

Is time together a factor?

Like when you control for everything else, is duration of relationship an indicator of sort of quality and satisfaction of relationship?

I'm not volunteering.

Well, I think that's why it can feel like a failure because there's this understandable and I think very desirable wish that this, it's like a novel.

It's going to have a beginning, a middle and an end.

And the end is death.

Like we're gonna, till death do us part.

That is written into the script, right?

And so I think if it ends early, I think a lot of people don't know how to integrate it into their life story.

The evolutionary biology part, which seems very real to me, is that all we have is time and energy.

And when we invest, time is running.

There's no do-over.

There's no do-over.

So I think that people carry a lot of resent about the time lost.

Definitely throw away the photos at some point.

Although now everything's, you know, in the cloud, it's very, very challenging.