Andrew Huberman

We're very comfortable with the fact that we've had previous relationships because early on we realized that like in the end, like that's all about our choices.

So it's kind of a crazy argument.

Right.

What does it say about you?

And she said something beautiful.

She said like, I'm grateful to all the good and bad things that you've had to experience regardless of, you know, and I said the same to her because the relationship is great and we bring that.

And I do think it was built on the trials and tribulations and great things.

Now I'm careful to not ask too many questions.

And she's careful to not ask too many questions.

We actually have selective ignorance around certain, we just like, I don't care.

Like I genuinely don't go down certain lines of inquiry and she doesn't either.

And I think it's great.

I think it's great.

I think it sets up like, we're here now.

This is time moving from now forward and where it goes, we determine that.

But histories are real.

And I have always admired, I have a few friends that paired up

very early, and they went through all these developmental milestones together.

First jobs, some even graduated college as couples, kids, you know, all this stuff.

And there's something really beautiful about people that have a long developmental trajectory, big milestones that they reach together.