André Duqum

And we want the feelings behind the things that we say we want. And so how much of your work do you see is bringing people back into realizing that they can actually self-source a lot of the things that they are so clinging externally for?

And we want the feelings behind the things that we say we want. And so how much of your work do you see is bringing people back into realizing that they can actually self-source a lot of the things that they are so clinging externally for?

Mm-hmm. It's really a persistent delusion. It's so enchanting. And of course, not just with romantic relationships, but so many different things we outsource our sense of joy. And I do think that there is a level of fulfillment that comes with alignment of what you feel like you're here to be doing in your career and being matched with a partner that is in alignment with your values.

Mm-hmm. It's really a persistent delusion. It's so enchanting. And of course, not just with romantic relationships, but so many different things we outsource our sense of joy. And I do think that there is a level of fulfillment that comes with alignment of what you feel like you're here to be doing in your career and being matched with a partner that is in alignment with your values.

Mm-hmm. It's really a persistent delusion. It's so enchanting. And of course, not just with romantic relationships, but so many different things we outsource our sense of joy. And I do think that there is a level of fulfillment that comes with alignment of what you feel like you're here to be doing in your career and being matched with a partner that is in alignment with your values.

But there's kind of two routes, right? It's like first we either discover before going to relationships that that delusion is in fact a delusion. Or we learn through the trials and tribulations in the relationship that we're putting our expectations of fulfillment of love solely in another person.

But there's kind of two routes, right? It's like first we either discover before going to relationships that that delusion is in fact a delusion. Or we learn through the trials and tribulations in the relationship that we're putting our expectations of fulfillment of love solely in another person.

But there's kind of two routes, right? It's like first we either discover before going to relationships that that delusion is in fact a delusion. Or we learn through the trials and tribulations in the relationship that we're putting our expectations of fulfillment of love solely in another person.

And I'm just curious how much of the trife you see in relationships are stemming from an overload of expectations.

And I'm just curious how much of the trife you see in relationships are stemming from an overload of expectations.

And I'm just curious how much of the trife you see in relationships are stemming from an overload of expectations.

And the reality of how it happens all the time is very much so unconscious, right? Like we're unaware to the degree in which our subconscious projections are happening. We're just like looking through them. We're too close to our own bullshit in many ways. Yeah.

And the reality of how it happens all the time is very much so unconscious, right? Like we're unaware to the degree in which our subconscious projections are happening. We're just like looking through them. We're too close to our own bullshit in many ways. Yeah.

And the reality of how it happens all the time is very much so unconscious, right? Like we're unaware to the degree in which our subconscious projections are happening. We're just like looking through them. We're too close to our own bullshit in many ways. Yeah.

I know, for sure. So I'm curious how much you see, like, for example... When people talk about like we go out and try to date our parents and we look for what's familiar and that feels safe to us. Even if love showed up in a chaotic format when we were younger, it feels safer to us because it's familiar. Yeah.

I know, for sure. So I'm curious how much you see, like, for example... When people talk about like we go out and try to date our parents and we look for what's familiar and that feels safe to us. Even if love showed up in a chaotic format when we were younger, it feels safer to us because it's familiar. Yeah.

I know, for sure. So I'm curious how much you see, like, for example... When people talk about like we go out and try to date our parents and we look for what's familiar and that feels safe to us. Even if love showed up in a chaotic format when we were younger, it feels safer to us because it's familiar. Yeah.

How do you navigate getting awareness and bringing mindfulness to people that are projecting a lot of that stuff?

How do you navigate getting awareness and bringing mindfulness to people that are projecting a lot of that stuff?

How do you navigate getting awareness and bringing mindfulness to people that are projecting a lot of that stuff?