André Duqum

I was talking to a friend over the past few weeks who's been...

seeing this woman who he has a deep affinity for, there's real love there.

And it is really struggling in this like, yes or no.

Is she the one?

Is she not the one?

Should I pursue it further?

Should I step away?

And so in that case, cause I think a lot of people relating right now could look at a career choice, a relationship, somebody they just started dating and they feel like they're stuck in this binary.

Yeah.

Um,

with that parable kind of goes hand in hand.

So what question, I guess, could they ask themselves to see what emotion they're avoiding?

Yeah.

So take it a step further because if you go from this to here and you name it and you can actually have a conscious conversation where you're not just projecting and it can be met in communication, but you still feel emotionally conflicted because at the end of the day,

a decision needs to be made, like commitment one way or the other needs to, needs to come to fruition.

You want to respect their time.

Um, how does one, if they're seeking clarity of like, we're still having this conversation, but I still don't know which direction to go in.

What would you say in that scenario?

Like just more time?

Hey guys, you might recall that I had a guest on last month, the Zen master and meditation teacher, Henry Shookman.