Andy Stumpf

Or they could shake during and be totally cool, calm and collected afterwards, like totally lock up during and be fine afterwards and everything in between those things.

So I think the, you know, being on edge in questioning yourself is actually a great thing.

These reflective, what could I have done better?

How could I be better prepared?

will serve you better in these environments going forward.

I think it's glad, or I think it's glad, wow, really a word day.

I am glad that you feel that way.

It's the person that thinks, no, I don't have to worry about anything and I'm just going to be a game time player and I'm going to step up and handle all issues when they present themselves.

I worry way more about that person than I do about somebody like yourself.

So take it easy on yourself.

You already have many, many steps in the right direction.

You're already tactically paying attention.

You're making decisions based off of preparation and thinking through if A happens, I'm going to do B or I'm going to put myself in this position in case A, B or C does happen.

Layer in that communication with your spouse.

Work as a team.

Share with her your concerns as well.

I am.

I don't know about you and your marriage, but I don't want my wife to be worried about things that she hasn't shared with me.

Offload a little bit of that anxiety onto me.

I'm talking about my wife and our relationship, but do the same thing with your wife too.