Andy Stumpf

And that is what this highlights for me.

Sounds like almost three decades later, something that happened when I'll assume you were younger in your life in the late 70s, early 80s when you were serving.

something happens, it bothers you for a bit, and it's so easy to just think that you've put it down and moved past it.

And for some people, that is exactly what happens because we all process stress and trauma differently.

I don't think there is a textbook recipe for like, if this happens, expect this amount of time.

If this happens, this is what's going to happen.

I think every single person

has a different capacity to deal with stress and trauma like this cup right here, which is not a redneck guzzler.

Again, this is just what I had in front of me.

This has probably got two ounces in it.

It's wholly unacceptable.

But the coffee is delicious, so that kind of rounds the edges on that one.

Some people can be like that.

And murder and a suicide, the cup is overflowing.

Other people, maybe it only fills it up halfway and they are able to deal with it and they're able to move on.

And I think over time we are able to work through a lot of this stuff, but I also think that there is residual and residual can build up.

For clarity, before I say anything else, just to make sure everybody understands, I am not a mental health counselor or therapist or professional by any stretch of the imagination.

And everything I'm saying is kind of just through my own personal experience, what I've seen in others, close in my social circle and in friends and family, not trying to give anybody medical advice here or mental health or therapy advice here.

I know people who have all been exposed to the same traumatic event overseas.

Let's throw a ballpark number out there.