Angela Giarratana

Being like, I'm going to help you with your move.

And now you owe me one.

And it's like, I didn't.

oh god yeah what do i have to do right they they put you in a bind it's it's controlling yeah but it's a very specific type of control yeah i'm a gift giver and sometimes i overdo it because i love gift giving no but then i'm thinking about doing something without like making some you could tell the heart behind a gift being like i want you to have it because i love you i don't feel anxiety when you give me gifts when you give me gifts i'm like oh my god this is so great

No, but what I'm saying is, like, there's a different energy when someone gives you a gift because they want something in return.

That made you feel a little bit higher than me, and it was just boxes.

I don't want to make you feel uncomfortable.

I'm actually moving.

Don't see me.

So I tripped and fell on this gift for you.

I'm just going to hand it to you.

It's like, no.

Doing anything that's a giving mentality, like even buying a drink for someone, doing any of that with an ulterior motive is always going to bring a little different to me.

Probably.

I grew up around a lot of that too.

I grew up around a lot of tests.

Well, look how good you have it.

And also, it makes me feel bad for the person who's testing because you can't just stand up for yourself.

I know it's more vulnerable to be like, I don't feel loved by you.

So I have to trap you into doing it and then go, put the lights on.