Angela Giarratana

Still no certainty.

He continued to be friends with her after the rejection and then after high school, they stopped talking.

All caps.

All of a sudden, my husband wakes up today and says he saw her in his dreams after 15 years and immediately wanted to find her on social media to see what she is doing with her life and what she has become.

He finds her and texts her, just casual.

Hi, how are you?

Just was thinking about high school and wanted to search for schoolmates here, etc., etc.

And then, quote, let's meet and catch up sometime this week.

And he tells me about this only several hours later in the car when he is back from out of town.

He says, quote, don't freak out.

Here's the deal.

I feel nothing about her now, and I'm going to meet her just to catch up.

I want to know what you think about it.

I initially was shocked, then slowly was coming into terms with that when he says, quote, you trust me, right?

I gave too much to build all of this with you, and I really value it too much to lose it because of something like this.

So it's just a catch-up meeting.

And, one, if I realize I feel something, I will immediately stop any communication after that.

And, on the other hand, two, if I realize she's a great person and I don't feel anything about her, I may stay friends with her because I also want a new person to talk to.

Like, you have all of these guys you talk to.

Just to mention, every guy I generally talk to, not on a daily basis, is either his friend, my married co-workers, or just old friends from former jobs or college who I have never had a crush on or had been pursued by.