Angela Giarratana

I want you to really imagine the scenario and tell me if it can just be innocent and I don't have to worry about it.

So we are together for almost a decade, most of it married.

Happily.

We've grown so much together and built the perfect life and relationship for us.

We trust each other and there are no icks or uncertainties between us when we talk to our opposite sex friends.

Okay.

He had a very big crush on a girl from high school for three years.

He eventually confessed then and received a rejection as the girl told him she doesn't feel the same and she most probably likes girls more.

Still no certainty.

He continued to be friends with her after the rejection and then after high school, they stopped talking.

All caps.

All of a sudden, my husband wakes up today and says he saw her in his dreams after 15 years and immediately wanted to find her on social media to see what she is doing with her life and what she has become.

He finds her and texts her, just casual.

Hi, how are you?

Just was thinking about high school and wanted to search for schoolmates here, etc., etc.

And then, quote, let's meet and catch up sometime this week.

And he tells me about this only several hours later in the car when he is back from out of town.

He says, quote, don't freak out.

Here's the deal.

I feel nothing about her now, and I'm going to meet her just to catch up.