Angie

And she's just mean to him.

She's just, she says things and she does things and, um,

And she's just, she's just, and it's not just him.

She's kind of mean to everybody, but.

No, she's, she's, it's new for me to see her do it with him.

Okay.

I've seen her do it with me and my siblings.

And, and I don't know that she, she, she just says mean things.

Like for instance, he, so he had the, they had quote unquote chores before the stroke.

Like he would clean out the dishwasher washer.

He would make the bed or he would fold the towels.

And after the stroke, she would, she started complaining about him not helping.

And he had a freaking stroke.

I know that's what I said.

So I said to be kind without yelling at her.

I said, mom,

he's had a brain injury.

He, he's not the same person that he was before.

And I said, um, you know, he's, he, he may not remember he has to do this or he meant, or like she would say, like she says things.

And this is the thing that, so this is the thing that bothers me a lot is, is she'll say things like, well, he won't tell me what he wants to eat.