Angie

So I just, I'm not going to fix him anything.

And, um,

If he wants something, he can go up and get it.

And I said, Mom, he's like a four-year-old.

He doesn't remember this stuff.

He had a brain injury.

And she'll push it aside.

And even my brother would say, my brother and my sister and I, we talk about it often.

I'd be like, ah, she's so mean.

Ah, I can't believe she does that.

Why does she do that?

So my question is, and I appreciate that there is

caregiver fatigue, right?

Totally.

And I appreciate that.

So my sister and I live two hours away.

My brother lives about an hour away.

we offer to come over we offer i mean they've got money they could pay somebody to move the so my sister and i have this conversation we should pay somebody to mow the yard for them and then we're like then what are they going to do right they're so healthy and able to do it it gives them something to do until they're not able to do it then but but but the little things like

like making him want lunch or making him dinner, or he won't tell me what to.

And so my, my husband, here's the thing.