Anna Goldfarb

And then you have active friendships.

And those are the people you talk with very frequently.

And that's based on a hobby or passion, something that you're both interested in.

So we have these two kinds of friendships that we're juggling.

But most people don't even know that they're two different lanes of friendship, that they have different expectations for each.

And that's where a lot of the heartbreak comes in because you might be applying expectations to a memorial friendship that isn't equipped to handle your high expectations.

Exactly.

Like that's, that's why you feel that way.

And we've all felt that we've all made an effort.

We made an attempt and it didn't,

really go the direction we hoped.

And it's like, well, why?

Why didn't we hit it off?

This person seems nice enough.

And it really is that about.

Friends are meant to stand beside you and look at the world the same way as you.

You're supposed to marvel at the same things in the world together.

And if you're not marveling at anything, it's like, well, what are we doing here?

Why are we here?

Why