Anna Runkle

And, uh, and so there's this sick aspect around it where, uh, People, what causes it? I mean, really, there are life conditions that cause it. There may be a genetic component. Severe neglect teaches you to find love where there is no love. It's like, you know, daddy and me, we have, you know, he's so special. He can't be here right now.

And, uh, and so there's this sick aspect around it where, uh, People, what causes it? I mean, really, there are life conditions that cause it. There may be a genetic component. Severe neglect teaches you to find love where there is no love. It's like, you know, daddy and me, we have, you know, he's so special. He can't be here right now.

And he's violent, but I know he loves me and I'm the best girl to him. I'm the light of his life and we have this very special thing. So you have this idealization of a parent, which you should, you must, right? What does that do to a kid? To believe your parents don't care about you and wish you were never born, that is not something a kid can handle. So it's a survival mechanism.

And he's violent, but I know he loves me and I'm the best girl to him. I'm the light of his life and we have this very special thing. So you have this idealization of a parent, which you should, you must, right? What does that do to a kid? To believe your parents don't care about you and wish you were never born, that is not something a kid can handle. So it's a survival mechanism.

And he's violent, but I know he loves me and I'm the best girl to him. I'm the light of his life and we have this very special thing. So you have this idealization of a parent, which you should, you must, right? What does that do to a kid? To believe your parents don't care about you and wish you were never born, that is not something a kid can handle. So it's a survival mechanism.

And I always just say, thank God for the survival mechanisms. Whatever allowed your little spirit to convince itself it could carry on. Now you're here, but now you're an adult, and that's got to come off. Yeah. Now we have to get real. Now we have to get honest about what's really happening here, which is a total dedication to something that doesn't exist and a total absence of real life.

And I always just say, thank God for the survival mechanisms. Whatever allowed your little spirit to convince itself it could carry on. Now you're here, but now you're an adult, and that's got to come off. Yeah. Now we have to get real. Now we have to get honest about what's really happening here, which is a total dedication to something that doesn't exist and a total absence of real life.

And I always just say, thank God for the survival mechanisms. Whatever allowed your little spirit to convince itself it could carry on. Now you're here, but now you're an adult, and that's got to come off. Yeah. Now we have to get real. Now we have to get honest about what's really happening here, which is a total dedication to something that doesn't exist and a total absence of real life.

And people will abandon their goals, their friendships, and to continue to just keep thinking about this person that's giving them that uplift they need. People are lonely. People are depressed. So some people, their pattern, they get out of depression by being angry all the time. And some people get out of it by thinking of a beautiful relationship that is just any day now. Obsession.

And people will abandon their goals, their friendships, and to continue to just keep thinking about this person that's giving them that uplift they need. People are lonely. People are depressed. So some people, their pattern, they get out of depression by being angry all the time. And some people get out of it by thinking of a beautiful relationship that is just any day now. Obsession.

And people will abandon their goals, their friendships, and to continue to just keep thinking about this person that's giving them that uplift they need. People are lonely. People are depressed. So some people, their pattern, they get out of depression by being angry all the time. And some people get out of it by thinking of a beautiful relationship that is just any day now. Obsession.

It's going to begin, yeah. Or some people fantasize about... great business success. I'm sure you've met people like that, where they're just being totally unrealistic. And every time the going gets tough, they're like, yeah, but when I've got my billion dollar whatever, and you're just like, yeah, but you don't even have a website. So it's the same thing.

It's going to begin, yeah. Or some people fantasize about... great business success. I'm sure you've met people like that, where they're just being totally unrealistic. And every time the going gets tough, they're like, yeah, but when I've got my billion dollar whatever, and you're just like, yeah, but you don't even have a website. So it's the same thing.

It's going to begin, yeah. Or some people fantasize about... great business success. I'm sure you've met people like that, where they're just being totally unrealistic. And every time the going gets tough, they're like, yeah, but when I've got my billion dollar whatever, and you're just like, yeah, but you don't even have a website. So it's the same thing.

And again, I don't mean to make fun of it. It's like this natural drive for us to try to express the best in ourselves, but there's this little piece missing. So we have to take bold action to, to overcome it. Now, some wounds that happen in life are like a scrape and they're going to heal naturally. Time is going to do it.

And again, I don't mean to make fun of it. It's like this natural drive for us to try to express the best in ourselves, but there's this little piece missing. So we have to take bold action to, to overcome it. Now, some wounds that happen in life are like a scrape and they're going to heal naturally. Time is going to do it.

And again, I don't mean to make fun of it. It's like this natural drive for us to try to express the best in ourselves, but there's this little piece missing. So we have to take bold action to, to overcome it. Now, some wounds that happen in life are like a scrape and they're going to heal naturally. Time is going to do it.

You don't even have to know how to heal it, but some are like an amputation. And if you, if you lose a leg, you know, some people have, it's not going to grow back. You can't get it back. You're You can't get it back, but there's a way to carry on. In the case of a leg, literally, you can have a prosthesis. They're pretty good now. Some people even run marathons.

You don't even have to know how to heal it, but some are like an amputation. And if you, if you lose a leg, you know, some people have, it's not going to grow back. You can't get it back. You're You can't get it back, but there's a way to carry on. In the case of a leg, literally, you can have a prosthesis. They're pretty good now. Some people even run marathons.

You don't even have to know how to heal it, but some are like an amputation. And if you, if you lose a leg, you know, some people have, it's not going to grow back. You can't get it back. You're You can't get it back, but there's a way to carry on. In the case of a leg, literally, you can have a prosthesis. They're pretty good now. Some people even run marathons.