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Anna Runkle

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
644 total appearances

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Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And the whole relationship usually explodes. There's something really unstable about it, but they come together like, yeah, there's a fit there with it. And it's really common. I've seen that.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And the whole relationship usually explodes. There's something really unstable about it, but they come together like, yeah, there's a fit there with it. And it's really common. I've seen that.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

So I say treat it as heroin. You can't just be friends. If you can be friends, be friends. If you can just get over it, get over it. But if you could do that, you would have done it by now. And so if you're suffering still, it's time to cut ties. So I get a lot of pushback on my channel from people who go, well, that's not fair. You know, she's obsessed with this guy, but he flirted with her.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

So I say treat it as heroin. You can't just be friends. If you can be friends, be friends. If you can just get over it, get over it. But if you could do that, you would have done it by now. And so if you're suffering still, it's time to cut ties. So I get a lot of pushback on my channel from people who go, well, that's not fair. You know, she's obsessed with this guy, but he flirted with her.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

So I say treat it as heroin. You can't just be friends. If you can be friends, be friends. If you can just get over it, get over it. But if you could do that, you would have done it by now. And so if you're suffering still, it's time to cut ties. So I get a lot of pushback on my channel from people who go, well, that's not fair. You know, she's obsessed with this guy, but he flirted with her.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

He gave her reason to hope he should leave the job. It's like, he's not writing me a letter. He's fine. She's the one who's like losing her happiness over this. So, so I recommend leave the job, stop being in contact with the person around whom you can't be yourself. You can't think about anything else.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

He gave her reason to hope he should leave the job. It's like, he's not writing me a letter. He's fine. She's the one who's like losing her happiness over this. So, so I recommend leave the job, stop being in contact with the person around whom you can't be yourself. You can't think about anything else.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

He gave her reason to hope he should leave the job. It's like, he's not writing me a letter. He's fine. She's the one who's like losing her happiness over this. So, so I recommend leave the job, stop being in contact with the person around whom you can't be yourself. You can't think about anything else.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And you can't progress as a person to where you're having a happy relationship and, you know, a happy life and fulfilled and what you want to do. And so first you cut contact. Then you have to cut off the talking about it and thinking about it. And people are like, I can't stop thinking about it. I'm like, you can. Just like a person who does heroin needs to stop thinking about it.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And you can't progress as a person to where you're having a happy relationship and, you know, a happy life and fulfilled and what you want to do. And so first you cut contact. Then you have to cut off the talking about it and thinking about it. And people are like, I can't stop thinking about it. I'm like, you can. Just like a person who does heroin needs to stop thinking about it.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And you can't progress as a person to where you're having a happy relationship and, you know, a happy life and fulfilled and what you want to do. And so first you cut contact. Then you have to cut off the talking about it and thinking about it. And people are like, I can't stop thinking about it. I'm like, you can. Just like a person who does heroin needs to stop thinking about it.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And the intrusive thoughts will come, but you have to remind yourself. And you're going to need friends who will support you. You're going to say, sorry, I'm just like thinking about how great it would be if that boat trip we're taking, if he would come. And they can say, okay, hold on. This is going to be really good. I'm going to be with you. This is going to be fun.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And the intrusive thoughts will come, but you have to remind yourself. And you're going to need friends who will support you. You're going to say, sorry, I'm just like thinking about how great it would be if that boat trip we're taking, if he would come. And they can say, okay, hold on. This is going to be really good. I'm going to be with you. This is going to be fun.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And the intrusive thoughts will come, but you have to remind yourself. And you're going to need friends who will support you. You're going to say, sorry, I'm just like thinking about how great it would be if that boat trip we're taking, if he would come. And they can say, okay, hold on. This is going to be really good. I'm going to be with you. This is going to be fun.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And hey, what are you going to wear? And let's go get something really nice to eat on the boat. And friends who help you come back to present time. You need help. It's very hard to fix yourself all by yourself. And you can do a certain amount.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And hey, what are you going to wear? And let's go get something really nice to eat on the boat. And friends who help you come back to present time. You need help. It's very hard to fix yourself all by yourself. And you can do a certain amount.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

And hey, what are you going to wear? And let's go get something really nice to eat on the boat. And friends who help you come back to present time. You need help. It's very hard to fix yourself all by yourself. And you can do a certain amount.

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

and then you have to you have to um sometimes like one thing i had to do is get all the sad songs off my my it was an ipod at the time but i had all these songs about unrequited love like half of all songs are about that so i just took them all off and i only had songs about other things about happy things or neutral things or you know but not just um

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

and then you have to you have to um sometimes like one thing i had to do is get all the sad songs off my my it was an ipod at the time but i had all these songs about unrequited love like half of all songs are about that so i just took them all off and i only had songs about other things about happy things or neutral things or you know but not just um

Modern Wisdom
#935 - Crappy Childhood Fairy - Limerence Explained: Why Do We Get Addicted To People?

and then you have to you have to um sometimes like one thing i had to do is get all the sad songs off my my it was an ipod at the time but i had all these songs about unrequited love like half of all songs are about that so i just took them all off and i only had songs about other things about happy things or neutral things or you know but not just um