Anne

I don't make dinner for the boys if I can't.

And I just I go do my thing because I have made the switch.

I would say in the last two and a half years to make myself my priority in all the things.

And so the voice has quieted as a result of that.

So I'm just hoping, yeah.

He accepts me.

And I can picture him sort of tilting his head like, I'm sorry that you're sorry, but I'm not sorry, and I love you, and let's go for a walk or plan a trip.

Yeah, I brought this question to my husband because there's only a few people I would want their opinion on.

And he initially said, well, I like the girls.

I don't want you to get rid of them.

But whatever you want to do, you do.

I don't care.

It's you.

You do you.

And when I asked one further time, he said, you can't ask me that because I can't give you my opinion.

I don't want you to make any decision based on me.

And so I thought, well, I really need a neutral party who's experienced in helping people make the next right choice for themselves.

Yeah, he's a difficult person to talk to.

So I tried to draw things out of him and he...

for whatever reason has, and we've been together 25 years and we've really focused back on each other in the last number of years.