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Antonio Pascual-Leone

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
366 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

The superficial story is this, you know, might be big on plot and characters, but never really getting into the deeper experience.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And the same old story would be, yes, they get into the emotional experience, but they're stuck in some sort of maladaptive state.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

This is it's always like this for me.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

It might be the poor me story or it might be feeling like a victim or it might be I'm just giving some examples.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

When people told stories like that, irrespective of the content, right?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

It's the manner in which they told their stories, right?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

So this is the phrasing, this is highlighting certain things, irrespective of the content.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

We could actually predict symptoms, their symptom level.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

So depressive symptoms, anxious symptoms, even trauma symptoms.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

So I can't stress enough.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

It isn't that they're telling stories about trauma and therefore they've suffered trauma.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

It's rather the way they tell this story.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And so it's like I can tell I know what you're feeling, meaning I know what your symptoms are to some degree and the symptom severity based on how people are telling their stories.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Yeah, because you can think of emotion in terms of immediate experience, but it also gets embellished and elaborated as a narrative, right?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

And sometimes people cling to a certain emotional loop or an emotional state becomes the centerpiece of the story they tell about who I am.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Well, yeah, I mean, I remember being in a relationship and leaning into it and

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

Yeah, I guess now that I'm thinking about it, there's sort of a theme here, right?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Move On

I mean, not wanting to be the reason why the relationship ends, right?