Arthur Brooks
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Podcast Appearances
That's the whole thing. But again, remember, you and I know Because this is our world. Psychology is biology. It just is. And you're doing all this stuff. You're not an idiot. You know, you're falling in love is the way that this works. If you understand this, you can manage it better.
Yeah, well, eHarmony doesn't do this necessarily because it doesn't actually take us through the steps.
Yeah, well, eHarmony doesn't do this necessarily because it doesn't actually take us through the steps.
Yeah, well, eHarmony doesn't do this necessarily because it doesn't actually take us through the steps.
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Please go take your final.
It's insanity. I get it. No, no. And for sure, I mean, you can manage it to a certain extent. The real problem, by the way, is when two people are falling in love, but they're at different speeds going through the neurochemical cascades.
It's insanity. I get it. No, no. And for sure, I mean, you can manage it to a certain extent. The real problem, by the way, is when two people are falling in love, but they're at different speeds going through the neurochemical cascades.
It's insanity. I get it. No, no. And for sure, I mean, you can manage it to a certain extent. The real problem, by the way, is when two people are falling in love, but they're at different speeds going through the neurochemical cascades.
And what's happening, there's a whole, there's a syndrome actually that's identifiable in the literature called hemophilia, not hemophilia. It's not a blood disorder.
And what's happening, there's a whole, there's a syndrome actually that's identifiable in the literature called hemophilia, not hemophilia. It's not a blood disorder.
And what's happening, there's a whole, there's a syndrome actually that's identifiable in the literature called hemophilia, not hemophilia. It's not a blood disorder.
And so the result is they get into relationships with what we call dark triad personalities. They're men who have high levels of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. The red pill boys. They have psychopathic traits and they feed on this for women who go right through the scale.
And so the result is they get into relationships with what we call dark triad personalities. They're men who have high levels of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. The red pill boys. They have psychopathic traits and they feed on this for women who go right through the scale.
And so the result is they get into relationships with what we call dark triad personalities. They're men who have high levels of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. The red pill boys. They have psychopathic traits and they feed on this for women who go right through the scale.
And so a lot of what I'm doing is I'm saying, if you've got this thing, you need to manage yourself because you need to understand yourself. Gotcha. And you need to understand the people who are going to prey on you. Yeah. Because they will. You'll be a magnet for dark triads. And it'll be like, every boyfriend I have is a psychopath. But it's literally true. Yeah.