Arthur Brooks

Yes.

And the arrival fallacy is just like, I got to get there.

And when I get there, I'm going to feel that thing.

Now, what is the thing I'm going to feel?

And this gets back to your question.

I'm going to feel like I'm worthy.

I'm going to feel like I'm something.

I'm going to feel like I'm special.

I'm finally going to feel like I'm special.

And you don't.

And you don't.

And that's the problem.

That's what a big part of the striver's curse.

Yeah, yeah.

So there's a reason that it's anti-memetic, and that's because it goes against Mother Nature.

mother nature wants you to be fooled the reason that that the that the the ancient williamsons right from some place some anglo-saxon tribe of something something right yeah yeah the reason they passed on their genes is because they were fooled by mother nature

that they were fooled, that they actually, that they chased the arrival fallacy again and again and again and again.

Now, the reason that you're not going to be satisfied, the reason that it can't be satisfied is because Mother Nature needs you in the hunt.

But the only way you're going to stay in the hunt is with a promise that you're finally going to get there.

Now, there's a side note to this.