Asha Paulose
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333 appearances
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first heard Mar 2025
last heard Mar 2025
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So if you have a checking account with a beneficiary, well, if your will says to all of my kids evenly, but you have one child as your beneficiary, well, that's what controls.
You know, the one child gets that full amount.
So it's nice to kind of know who your beneficiaries are.
And then once you have that list, I kind of tell people to write who's on your team.
And you know, that includes who are the people you want to take care of you when you're sick, to come into the house, you know, to visit you, to help you with your finances, to pay the lawn guy, you know, who's in your team.
And as an adult child, you have to be okay with, well, maybe I'm not part of that team.
You know, maybe I'm going to help mom get all these documents, but I'm not going to be the one on that team.
And we just have to kind of
accept that as a role.
And that's going to be hard, but everybody kind of has their strengths and weaknesses.
And mom feels more comfortable with sister handling all the crucial healthcare decisions.
I got to be okay with that because I'm doing something else for her.
I'm being a benefit in other ways.
And then once you got all that down, you come to the attorney, you get these basic planning documents.
Every attorney will say,
The basic planning documents are crucial.
There's three different categories, I kind of put it as.
One is all your health care talks.
It feels like every single decision is a separate document.
So, you know, that's just how it is.
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