Ashani Dante

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1,921 appearances 12 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 17 Jul

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But Are You Happy? · Why Group Chats Feel So Exhausting (And What To Do About It) · 17 Jul 2026 podcast

More of my conversation with Millie after the break.

So I feel like a lot of people, they have this burden where they need a reply, but they feel exhausted at the same time.

What would healthy digital hygiene look like in this particular situation?

I love that.

No, I think that's really helpful.

And it's interesting too, because

You know, I think a lot of this comes down to setting boundaries and really tuning into, you know, what is it that I need, what's going to be in service to myself, but also for the group.

So how can someone set boundaries in a group chat without worrying that they'll come across as distant or rude?

I reckon the same thing, right?

Yeah, definitely.

And it's interesting too because I think there's a reality where

You know, you might say the things, you'll stand up for yourself.

And there is a reality where you may come across as rude or distant to someone else.

But I think this is the whole bit around taking responsibility.

It's like, well, you're not responsible for that other person's experience as well.

So it is that world of, oh, okay, cool.

this might not come across great and I've got to learn to be okay with that, which is a lot, you know, especially for the people pleasers out there as like including myself.

Yeah, definitely.

Definitely.

So do you feel like if a group chat does start to become more tense or negative, do you advise someone to address that head on or just step away?

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