Ashley Roberts

But that, you know, I could just have a fur family and be like,

happy as a pig in, you know what?

Pig in shit.

That's my love language.

Oh my God, get me on paper.

Like you're always on a plane.

I was like, yeah, I don't have kids.

I spend all my money on traveling because that's what I love to do.

Right?

I want to have a margarita with a little cute, you know, man coming over and serving it to me.

Sounds fabulous.

I don't have to go to the kiddie pool.

What do you like when you're in love?

Yeah, well, I mean, you know, there's been many areas of love, but I think that this current one I'm in is quite nice.

It's consistent, it's kind, it's thoughtful, it's romantic, it's my nervous system.

And honestly, I swear to you, Jamie, it's because I've been doing this work.

I swear, because...

there's just been a shift even my my friends my closest friends i said you know i've got my close circle like they're like ash like you're different like something's different and when you again have a shift in perspective right how you operate in life then shows up differently and that sort of because you can react differently you you you process things differently self-awareness of i mean also that you know i've gotten older but my boyfriend's you know

younger than me and I was like first of all I was like no we'll have you know this is fun but like not gonna go anywhere serious but actually the kind of human that he is I was like oh that like my nervous system around you is really calm wow you're consistent transparent um

just a beautiful human and i was like i want to i want to lean into that instead of the other relationships that sparked up something that was probably what was more familiar to me um as considered love you know did you find in some relate when relationships seem to be hectic and chaotic and dramatic and fiery and that you're like oh that this is what it should be like this is what a relationship should be like