Ashley

And we were both, like, pretty stubborn.

I felt like...

I felt like he was more reluctant to compromising because he had a lot less to give up.

And I had a lot going on where I'm living.

So I felt like he was expecting me to make all of the changes to accommodate him.

And it kind of just left a bad taste in my mouth because I wanted him to be a little bit more understanding.

Like I had my career here and my family and a house, like I own my house here.

So it was a lot for me to untangle.

he really didn't have anything to untangle.

So that was kind of the...

It was probably right at the last step where we both knew we wanted to be together.

We were both very much in love with each other, but it was, he really expected everything from me while offering like nothing in return.

And that like big life change, it was kind of just like,

It was like, I don't think I can like give up like my lifestyle to like go live where you live.

Cause we live in like two different kinds of climates and he lives in like a great part of the country.

I live in like, not that where I live isn't great.

It's not the same, right?

It's not, it's not what he's used to.

He's used to snowboarding, surfing, being outside all the time where I live.

It's not really like that.