Ashley

Right.

And that's the thing that I can't figure out because, I mean, he was all about that.

I just like was not, I don't know.

I just couldn't bring myself to do it.

But then it's like I meet someone else and it's like I had no issues.

You mean the one that I left my fiance for?

Yep.

Um, I wasn't necessarily bored with him.

I, he was just like a little bit, I mean, he was emotionally and mentally abusive and controlling and manipulative.

And it just like got to the point where.

That drew me to like him.

I don't know.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Right.

Well, and the other thing is that, um, like he knew the situation that I was in with this other person, how it was like abusive and, um,

My ex was just worried that it was going to turn physical.

And so he allowed me to come back into our old house.

Well, it's technically his house, but it was our house, you know, that we built together and stay in the spare room until I find an apartment or we like figure out what we want to do.

And so I've been here for like a week now, just in the spare room.