Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
Aubrey O'Day’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You know, I have the same type of feeling that everyone on the stand continues to say, which is there is this good side of him. There is a side that you can love. That side is so palpable that people will still write him after their abuse with loving messages or thoughts or feelings. It doesn't mean that everything that's going on isn't very criminal.
It just means that this is very complex and layered. And to suggest that there is nothing good about this person is... a very bold thing to suggest. And that's kind of what 80 civil suits were giving to on top, top, on top, on top of each other for years, year and a half or so.
And, and then, you know, as it's starting to be put together, there are days that I drive home and call people that also were around during that time, not my band members, but people in the industry. And we just like sit in silence and, pull up to wherever we're going and say, who the fuck were we working for? Who is he? What were we in? How were we put with this person? Like, why?
How could this have gone so unchecked by so many very high-level corporate people that gave him branding deals and TV shows and platforms to take young, impressionable artists and have them be exploited in ways that are just so degrading and humiliating that... I don't know. I just it's just being discussed in so many circles is just being so known to people. Suge Knight has said it a few times.
Everybody knew what Puff was on. Everybody knew this was going on. Even I said everyone knew there was behaviors like everybody knew the sex parties. Everybody knows. I know all kinds of little tea that I could drop it legally. I wouldn't because it turns you into a gossip versus somebody that's reporting on actual
events that are occurring in this trial and I'm not interested in being Wendy Williams even though I do love her but for me I'm just trying I was trying to find if there was a soul in there somewhere if there's something redeemable even in if he serves all the time that he should because I believe that they've hit the threshold on all five charges will he be able to find himself when he if
He is charged. Like, I don't know. It's almost like somebody that really locked into your soul. You kind of always still think about them. My entire life was changed because I met this person.
For better or worse, the way that he was able to psychologically get inside my head and the way he groomed me at too young of an age to throw those boundaries down and say no, it had to have affected everyone I've dated. the way I positioned myself to them, the way I saw myself as a woman, the way that I thought my value was as a woman and so on and so forth.
I mean, it's just very, very, very complex and the abuse is just too horrific and the system that's propping it up is just too knowledgeable of so much of this.
I think he lost the plot. I think he had some of the plot when I was still there, but you know, it's so hard because technology really changed the game. You know, like you can't just do all your stuff anymore without there being, I mean, if someone dies, you have 80 cameras going up before people call 911. Everybody is documenting and everybody is selling the documents of everything.
It's a very, very like movable part of our culture ingrained in us now. Back then in the 90s, I mean, people saw Freaknik on Hulu and were like, huh? What? What? Who? We're like, you know, every different cultures had different reactions. But that was really shocking for people back then. That was just what it was. I've been through this evolution of, this is just what it is over this way.
And all the way to, no, this should never be where it is in any way. And certainly if this is just a lavish lifestyle, everybody that's allowing the money to continue rolling in for this lavish lifestyle that are attending the events of this lavish lifestyle have got to come inside their homes at night and question, would I want my daughter doing this?
Would I want my daughter dating this, being involved in this? Like, I guess when it's not happening to yours and your own, maybe you just don't do the oversights properly. But this is a very big, very, very big problem. And a lot of very big people, I would like to see accountability on so many levels.
It's the facilitated and allowed to continue. And I want the higher levels on down to the people that were wrangling for him. We've talked to people where we've heard stories of that being alleged. You know what I'm saying? Like, I want to see all of that. I think people that were in the know, I don't know. I knew things and I tried telling people and no one was listening.
And I got to see the results of it. Maybe other people didn't want to see those results. The results aren't pretty. They're humiliating and embarrassing. And you don't really get to become what you wanted to become or could have become in life anymore.
I just I think that they've proved I mean, I was speaking with an attorney the other day about the thresholds on all five charges. We've we've just seen them. I asked if everything's been met, and in their opinion as an attorney, they said yes on all five. I feel the same. Obviously, I'm not an attorney, but I'm yes on all five here and now today.
If they brought on a bodyguard in KK, I probably just would go to sleep for the defense because it's an under-the-jail-wrap type of a situation if a bodyguard in KK go up there. If any of the bodyguards...
Any of the bodyguards that I maybe allegedly know that maybe have allegedly committed any federal crimes with him, if they were to have been given immunity allegedly and they take the stand and they allege to things that they did, that would be damning. So in the attorney I spoke to's opinion, Emily Simpson, she felt like she would love to see a bodyguard and an executive involved.
From the system, which Harv Pierre's name has been thrown around a lot in that courtroom and in civil suits. And that was my boss. All right.
Oh, girl, I don't like to call her anything. I don't call her and I don't like to call her. That is just what they call her. And I'm going with the days on that one. I don't have her in my phone and nor do I ever want.
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