Aubrey O'Day

The humiliation of having me go through all of that and then sit through three-part finales where Diddy's in a robe in Miami smoking a cigar and I'm on stage alone with no support, trying to be as brave as I possibly could. But truly, they ensured through reruns that the whole world got the picture that they intended to give me.

And over time, that narrative not only distorted how the world saw me, but how I saw myself. And if I didn't play into that narrative, I was left without work. And over time, I also felt because of that narrative that the most important thing that I had to offer any relationship was my sexuality, personal and work. It's kind of...

And over time, that narrative not only distorted how the world saw me, but how I saw myself. And if I didn't play into that narrative, I was left without work. And over time, I also felt because of that narrative that the most important thing that I had to offer any relationship was my sexuality, personal and work. It's kind of...

And over time, that narrative not only distorted how the world saw me, but how I saw myself. And if I didn't play into that narrative, I was left without work. And over time, I also felt because of that narrative that the most important thing that I had to offer any relationship was my sexuality, personal and work. It's kind of...

it boxed me into a place where I almost believed the messaging myself for a very long period of time. I had a lot of dark days. I was left without work. And over time, that narrative was kind of like, stripping me of the complexity, talent, intellect, and the value that I truly bring to the table. And it really forced me to fight for an identity during my entire career that I never consented to.

it boxed me into a place where I almost believed the messaging myself for a very long period of time. I had a lot of dark days. I was left without work. And over time, that narrative was kind of like, stripping me of the complexity, talent, intellect, and the value that I truly bring to the table. And it really forced me to fight for an identity during my entire career that I never consented to.

it boxed me into a place where I almost believed the messaging myself for a very long period of time. I had a lot of dark days. I was left without work. And over time, that narrative was kind of like, stripping me of the complexity, talent, intellect, and the value that I truly bring to the table. And it really forced me to fight for an identity during my entire career that I never consented to.

And only now am I finding myself being able to set the appropriate boundaries and make sure that I'm only doing work that I consent to and that aligns with the purpose that I feel I wish my life could have started at back when I was just a kid.

And only now am I finding myself being able to set the appropriate boundaries and make sure that I'm only doing work that I consent to and that aligns with the purpose that I feel I wish my life could have started at back when I was just a kid.

And only now am I finding myself being able to set the appropriate boundaries and make sure that I'm only doing work that I consent to and that aligns with the purpose that I feel I wish my life could have started at back when I was just a kid.

Mm. Callie, I'm so sorry to hear what you have been through, especially for 20 years. I can't imagine the damage and the toll that that took on your soul. And I am just sending so much positivity and love. Healing and self-love your way. I pray that you're surrounded in a bubble by it for the rest of your life on this earth. You deserve so much.

Mm. Callie, I'm so sorry to hear what you have been through, especially for 20 years. I can't imagine the damage and the toll that that took on your soul. And I am just sending so much positivity and love. Healing and self-love your way. I pray that you're surrounded in a bubble by it for the rest of your life on this earth. You deserve so much.

Mm. Callie, I'm so sorry to hear what you have been through, especially for 20 years. I can't imagine the damage and the toll that that took on your soul. And I am just sending so much positivity and love. Healing and self-love your way. I pray that you're surrounded in a bubble by it for the rest of your life on this earth. You deserve so much.

You know, to answer your question in regards to DV through my own experience, abuse happens in cycles. It doesn't happen all at once. I think that's something that people aren't truly getting. In my personal experience, I would experience love.

You know, to answer your question in regards to DV through my own experience, abuse happens in cycles. It doesn't happen all at once. I think that's something that people aren't truly getting. In my personal experience, I would experience love.

You know, to answer your question in regards to DV through my own experience, abuse happens in cycles. It doesn't happen all at once. I think that's something that people aren't truly getting. In my personal experience, I would experience love.

This incredible, beautiful love that made me feel like, especially from somebody that had a, you know, much more established presence, more money, more power, more of a reputation and a fan base than me. I remember nights where I would go into the bathroom and lift my shirt up and like lay on the marble tile just so I could feel it.

This incredible, beautiful love that made me feel like, especially from somebody that had a, you know, much more established presence, more money, more power, more of a reputation and a fan base than me. I remember nights where I would go into the bathroom and lift my shirt up and like lay on the marble tile just so I could feel it.

This incredible, beautiful love that made me feel like, especially from somebody that had a, you know, much more established presence, more money, more power, more of a reputation and a fan base than me. I remember nights where I would go into the bathroom and lift my shirt up and like lay on the marble tile just so I could feel it.

something real because everything around me was so foreign and didn't didn't didn't know me. I didn't even know what I was seeing me do and be. And then that's followed up by an apology, of course, and sometimes gifts depending on, you know, if the guy has money or not. And so then you kind of lose sight of all the trauma. It never goes away.