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Aubrey O'Day

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something real because everything around me was so foreign and didn't didn't didn't know me. I didn't even know what I was seeing me do and be. And then that's followed up by an apology, of course, and sometimes gifts depending on, you know, if the guy has money or not. And so then you kind of lose sight of all the trauma. It never goes away.

something real because everything around me was so foreign and didn't didn't didn't know me. I didn't even know what I was seeing me do and be. And then that's followed up by an apology, of course, and sometimes gifts depending on, you know, if the guy has money or not. And so then you kind of lose sight of all the trauma. It never goes away.

I don't think you ever talk it outside of your body, even in therapy or any types of alternative healing. I think you just learn to create boundaries that you know will establish that you're never going to be in a situation like that again. And that's where your power really comes from. But a lot of people don't understand trauma bonding and intermittent reinforcement.

I don't think you ever talk it outside of your body, even in therapy or any types of alternative healing. I think you just learn to create boundaries that you know will establish that you're never going to be in a situation like that again. And that's where your power really comes from. But a lot of people don't understand trauma bonding and intermittent reinforcement.

I don't think you ever talk it outside of your body, even in therapy or any types of alternative healing. I think you just learn to create boundaries that you know will establish that you're never going to be in a situation like that again. And that's where your power really comes from. But a lot of people don't understand trauma bonding and intermittent reinforcement.

It's basically like love followed by cruelty. It conditions the brain to crave approval from the very person that's harming you. And that is the part that keeps us there for like in your case, 20 years. It's just this constant cycle of trauma bonding. And then also there's shame, there's judgment and coming forward and telling people. And this was key for me. There's identity erosion.

It's basically like love followed by cruelty. It conditions the brain to crave approval from the very person that's harming you. And that is the part that keeps us there for like in your case, 20 years. It's just this constant cycle of trauma bonding. And then also there's shame, there's judgment and coming forward and telling people. And this was key for me. There's identity erosion.

It's basically like love followed by cruelty. It conditions the brain to crave approval from the very person that's harming you. And that is the part that keeps us there for like in your case, 20 years. It's just this constant cycle of trauma bonding. And then also there's shame, there's judgment and coming forward and telling people. And this was key for me. There's identity erosion.

I didn't feel talented, smart, successful, beautiful. I mean, I was being made fun of constantly. So the identity erosion for me was so big and I think it's so big for so many women when I hear how long they stay, and when they're very long lengths. It usually has to do with a low self-worth, and it doesn't necessarily mean that you went into the relationship with that.

I didn't feel talented, smart, successful, beautiful. I mean, I was being made fun of constantly. So the identity erosion for me was so big and I think it's so big for so many women when I hear how long they stay, and when they're very long lengths. It usually has to do with a low self-worth, and it doesn't necessarily mean that you went into the relationship with that.

I didn't feel talented, smart, successful, beautiful. I mean, I was being made fun of constantly. So the identity erosion for me was so big and I think it's so big for so many women when I hear how long they stay, and when they're very long lengths. It usually has to do with a low self-worth, and it doesn't necessarily mean that you went into the relationship with that.

But the identity erosion is a big part. It just breaks you down, isolates you, and it convinces you that what's hurting you is the only thing that's holding you together as well. So at the end of the day, I really want to make it clear, victims do not stay because they're weak, right? They stay because abuse rewires their reality.

But the identity erosion is a big part. It just breaks you down, isolates you, and it convinces you that what's hurting you is the only thing that's holding you together as well. So at the end of the day, I really want to make it clear, victims do not stay because they're weak, right? They stay because abuse rewires their reality.

But the identity erosion is a big part. It just breaks you down, isolates you, and it convinces you that what's hurting you is the only thing that's holding you together as well. So at the end of the day, I really want to make it clear, victims do not stay because they're weak, right? They stay because abuse rewires their reality.

OK, Jean-Paul, this is a little bit more. Now, listen, if we if this was like Aubrey, not in her professional blazer, I would just serve you the tea. But because we are, you know, we're taking this very seriously and we're reporting on this trial accurately. I can discuss your question later.

OK, Jean-Paul, this is a little bit more. Now, listen, if we if this was like Aubrey, not in her professional blazer, I would just serve you the tea. But because we are, you know, we're taking this very seriously and we're reporting on this trial accurately. I can discuss your question later.

OK, Jean-Paul, this is a little bit more. Now, listen, if we if this was like Aubrey, not in her professional blazer, I would just serve you the tea. But because we are, you know, we're taking this very seriously and we're reporting on this trial accurately. I can discuss your question later.

by using things that are occurring and that have been in the news and media without giving you my personal thoughts on the situation. But you're right. There have been several figures who have been a part of Diddy's professional and personal circle, artists, producers, bodyguards, assistants that have died young, often with causes listed as pneumonia, cardiac arrest,

by using things that are occurring and that have been in the news and media without giving you my personal thoughts on the situation. But you're right. There have been several figures who have been a part of Diddy's professional and personal circle, artists, producers, bodyguards, assistants that have died young, often with causes listed as pneumonia, cardiac arrest,

by using things that are occurring and that have been in the news and media without giving you my personal thoughts on the situation. But you're right. There have been several figures who have been a part of Diddy's professional and personal circle, artists, producers, bodyguards, assistants that have died young, often with causes listed as pneumonia, cardiac arrest,