Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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Sure, intimidating. And also, like, I had moments of him that were so scary. And then a second later, he would dap me up. So, like, he would do something scary. And then he would... And I would be scared. And then he would dap me up and be like, but that was good, though. That was good. Keep it up. Keep it up. And then walk out. And I would remember...
feeling confusion, like, did I do something good or bad here? Am I liked or not liked? The way that he was able to switch energies within seconds and, you know, in one moment be, like, extremely scary and in another moment be, like, dapping you up is very... is very confusing. You start to not understand the mission that you came in for. You start to get confused yourself.
Well, I don't know anyone that wouldn't fear someone who blew up their car, right? Allegedly, you know what I'm saying, or was even responsible for sending people over to blow up his car. It was said by Cassie that he said he was going to do it. It was done. It's been established by the police report. We saw pictures. I think that.
Life gets pretty real when you see that things can get blown up when someone says they're going to blow it up. You can be as like cool and tough as you want to, but your car being blown up is a bit scary. You know, you could have been getting inside of it when the bomb went off.
I mean, listen, I know everybody loves their dogs differently. Um, The life, the car being blown up and his life that could have been inside of it when that occurred. The home being vandalized and mostly the dog being traumatized and locked up. I know how much I love my dogs. I would be pretty ready to get on that stand unless somebody know how I felt.
I think probably at the time, he says that he understood him to be the person that did it. He kind of had to brush off Diddy's, oh, no, it wasn't me, man. Everything's cool. And then later on in 2015, hey, sorry for all that stuff that went down.
You know, I think that it shows how powerful and how many people to very high levels of influence were just not trying to cross Diddy in any type of way. It would not be to your benefit. Potentially, it could be to your demise. We are covering only a period of time in this trial. You got to remember the 90s. We're at making the band era and after with dirty money.
We haven't even gone all the way back. But there are reports of these things occurring by people that witnessed them long before this window that the trial is addressing. So, you know, back then there weren't cell phones and things like that. So you can't easily get footage, text messages, communications. It's a bit harder to prove things.
However, there has been allegations of a lot of things and there has been direct witnesses to a lot of things that have come forward. and spoke on this exact behavior going on. There were a lot of people that understood this in the industry, and there were a lot of people who did not come forward. Even Kid Cudi himself, we're just now learning all of this.
And he's a very, very, he's your artist's favorite artist. I'm a huge fan of Kid Cudi. For him to not come forward right away and let all of us know, you have to understand there's some element of, I don't want to say fear because I don't want to speak for another human's emotions on something, but definitely knowledge that this wouldn't be smart for me to discuss publicly.
It seemed to happen all the time that there would be these breakups and makeups. There would be these pauses and not. I mean, if you kind of look through everything in chronological order, he also had to pay attention to other girlfriends that were there. So maybe on a week where another girlfriend was getting attention, Cassie wasn't... maybe knew about it, was pissed. There was an argument.
Who knows? I mean, we can only estimate and we can only assume what went on. But they clarified that there wasn't a relationship at that time. And then she fell for another guy. I mean, all we do in this industry is live in studios and record music. You meet all kinds of people, producers, artists.
We're all in the same rooms late at night, early in the morning, during the day, whenever, making music. And so we're constantly running into each other and having connections and vibes with each other.
Yep. So the commonplace is also him always having access to her phones and knowing what's inside of them. That is a common thread that even one of Cassie's writers that worked with her for a majority of her career, a woman named Tiffany Redd, she even had the music she was making with Cassie was taken in.
out of her phone at some point and they had written a song about the freak offs and he found out and was pissed about it and allegedly she was punished accordingly. This being able to access her phones and understand everything that's going on with her is showing that he was always maintaining this control and also even with Cassie's mom's testimony,
She said he even made her take out a $20,000 loan because he was going to blackmail her and Cuddy and release videos of Cassie. And the mom was scared enough to go get put a loan on her, I believe, home. against your home and then he gave it back. I mean, we all know Diddy's not thirsty for $20,000. That was a power play and that was a game check on someone's mother.
What would you feel if someone did that to your mother? And then also the fact that everyone complied enough to even go take out a loan. That's an extensive degree of putting your ass on the line. Of course, you would do it for your child, but that's the type of Control, power, coercion, force, all of these things were so present in all of these stories.
Everybody felt like they had to do what this man wanted or there was going to be consequences that would be extreme.
It's likely that when they because at the Soho house, Cassie was there. It was Diddy, Cassie and Cuddy. I also found it very interesting that the Soho house was chosen. I mean, obviously, if I'm Cuddy, I'm not trying to go anywhere behind closed doors with a man like a hotel because we all know the hotels are like low key need to be addressed at how irresponsible they were with their behavior.
All of them that have been announced. And then also, you know, I think that he wanted to be, you know, if you guys have been to the Soho house, there's agents, managers, celebrities. You can't get in there until you have the magic key. Like, you've got to be able to be somebody to be there.
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