Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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But it sounds like from the point where I am checked out, moving forward, that drugs were a very common, constant state from the testimony and from people that were living there that are speaking with us. It just sounds like that is something that was getting very out of control.
That's tough. For me as a woman, I find it very hard to think that because you're either on the side of the victims or you defend the bad guy. Right. And as women, we don't get a lot of. we don't get a lot of rope to say, well, I believe these four things that the person said, these two, I saw some things where I know that those two are probably not fully the truth.
And I could believe this, but she could be lying too. Like I'm never given the grace of being able to dissect anybody like that. I just have to make a blanket statement because I feel as a woman, especially in the celebrity world, you're either with women or you aren't. And we kind of have to be in these lanes and it makes dissecting things a bit difficult. And also because there are so many,
headlines and journalists being so irresponsible you almost fear that the one thing you say that is a dissection gets carried off into the sunset when you dissected it properly and then you're on this side or you're on that I'm being told that I'm on sides that I haven't even dissected yet I'm scared to dissect But I could.
I could absolutely dissect and I could absolutely pick all kinds of things apart. I do it every day since since all of this started. But but I don't I don't feel like there's any room to do that. And that's a problem. I think we really need to figure out as a society, because that's why there's such extreme palpable reactions to this case.
There are some people that are just blanket saying Cassie is lying. There are celebrities that are people that are known in the industry that were around and they're just suggesting that. Then there are people that are fully with her.
There's a lot of really palpable feelings toward it because it seems like according to her testimony, there's proof that there was days that that were, you know, OK, or that maybe that somehow in the messages, it suggests that there was an agreement on certain days. And then on certain days, it seems like it got out of control and it was not wanted at all.
We see force as such a...
action word but when I think of it in the making the band context I just did what he said I don't feel like anyone was giving me an action but when he said go run Central Park till somebody drops that's just what we did we just had to we just knew you had to that's what you had to do when I think of it now that was there was force in that there was coercion in that there that wasn't something I wanted to do you know like there was there were those elements there but when you're young and
And because of the way we define these words, it's very difficult to understand that force factor and to verbalize it clearly to people. Because you're not looking at it like that when you're in that environment. It's just that environment is so far from anyone's healthy, natural state that when you're in it.
And like I said, when it's good, you feel like, oh, my God, I'm living in this cool place that nobody understands. Everybody wants fame. It's not even fame. I've seen fame at all levels. There's a lot of fame that's completely normal. This is something else. The life over on that side is just in extremes. I remember at one point being on Scott Storch's yacht that they had seized at one point.
It's on the internet. It's this gigantic, shiny yacht that's got every bell and whistle on it.
Yeah.
And we had like been in his home recording and then we were all out on the yacht with Puff. And I remember after that we had gotten sent home for a while and I went home to my sorority and I was like, wow, everybody over here is real boring and this is real stale and I want to go back over there where everything was like.
The lifestyle, and it's not just a wealthy lifestyle, it's like extravagant and at a drop of a dime Diddy will stand up and suggest that everybody goes somewhere and that's just what we do. Like it was just very... Intoxicating. Yeah, without even being on drugs.
I didn't feel that way.
What I'm learning as I talk to more people is the degrees of that are different, right? Like what you're willing to do. It depends on how you grew up. It depends on your experiences that you saw as a child. It depends on what you've normalized in life versus what you haven't. I was always known to like talk back to him.
That's not necessarily a natural state for anyone else in my group to have done that. And everybody's got different circumstances that we were raised in. So the levels in which we fought that I'll do anything card is different. But we're not different in regards to being under the blanket of being victims to it and experiencing the overall understanding of it.
However, the levels to which people will go as we're dissecting even within my own band, it sounds like there are levels to which one of my band members may have gone that just are foreign to me. I would never.
And remember, he's iconic in a culture as well. He's a huge, iconic figure. Correct.
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