Aurora Culpo
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first heard Nov 2024
last heard Nov 2024
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It was so frustrating.
It's on the clock. And sometimes they'll try to act like they're your friend, like you're having a conversation and they almost are taking advantage of you during this very vulnerable time. They're billing you for that. Or sometimes when you, it's an emotional time, like you have an emotional response to a lot of these. Of course.
things that you're questions that you're being asked and they're just so deadpan they don't have they do this every day and they're not a therapist they're they shouldn't be expected to be one but i don't know i had a really bad experience at that point because you're emotional and yeah the whole thing is emotional and you don't think like you're on the clock I had a bad experience with lawyers.
Oh, yeah, yeah. That is true, actually. If I make over a certain amount of money, then he pays... Because we didn't do a normal child support situation. So basically, if I make over a certain amount, then what he has to give me in child support goes down a little bit. It's not very much anyway, because our earnings are almost equal.
And I was fine to sign off on that, because I'm like, if you don't need to pay me, then I don't want your money. And... Some of the deal, I'm like, I just want it to be done. And I signed off on something that I'm not thrilled about. So when I got bought out of the house, it's overtime without interest monthly. But it's what he could do. And I want it to be done. That was annoying.
Yes.
No, I know. And my dad was like, that's the stupidest thing in the world that you signed that. But I needed to be done. I needed to be out.
we did not have a prenup.
No, I don't know. I don't know if it would have changed much. It's changed how I feel about marriage. And because I never in a million years thought that finances would be one of our point of contentions. Like it never was ever. And I was, that was what I liked about him the most actually is that he's very generous and not like stingy or weird.
about money with all his friends and anybody in his life. But then, I don't know, divorce makes things hard.
I'd want to get married again, but definitely have some kind of agreement. Prenup. Prenup. Yeah. Just not because I'm anticipating divorce, but just...
Yeah. I think if you're going through a divorce right now, it's important to zoom out your perspective and see what is actually most important. And I don't think it's trying to find that exact dollar amount that would make everything fair. The goal is to move on in your most empowered version of you. And you can't do that if you have lost sleep for a year trying to
make everything as fair as possible. And that's the place that I was in with just, I got obsessed with the deal and what was going to be signed and the numbers. And it just made me miserable.
So eventually when all was said and done and whether I didn't feel like everything was as equitable as it could have been, but it left me at least with enough sanity left to move forward and just focus on the future.
Yeah.
Because I think a lot of women don't realize that, I think this is more common than not. So he paid for the mortgage and he paid for everything that was on the books and And all my money went towards things that we didn't really keep track of, like groceries and kids stuff. So all my money, like I had no record pretty much of where all my money had gone.
And then he had this record of, oh, look, I paid for everything for our life for the last however many years. So that made it difficult when trying to convince a court that I had any right to equitable division.
Yeah.
Yeah, that was kind of a joke. Definitely, I won't be going back anytime soon. But my dating life is just, I don't know if it's the pool of men that is just in LA, but there's some hopefuls. I think there's a nice guy out there somewhere for me. I just have not met him yet.
And the people that I have met are these like Peter Pan syndrome type guys who have never been married, never been in a relationship, really, and are like in their 40s. There's a lot of them, at least in the west side of LA. They're the surfer boys. Yeah.
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