Autumn

turning 28 situation two years older than me we were doing great in my head like everything was fine i was really liking this guy it's probably like the most serious relationship i've had in two years okay and then on top of that everything's going great we're texting that morning two hours like go by and he just randomly texts me hey i'm moving to nashville

And I'm like, I'm sorry, what?

And I was like, what are you talking about?

And he said, it's something I've been thinking about for a while now.

I was like, since when?

That's news to me.

He said, I just really need to advance my music career.

I hope you understand, but obviously we're not going to be able to work out.

Okay, thanks.

So I agreed with him in the sense of I don't want that longer distance of a relationship, but still at the same time, just completely blindsiding me.

Never once knew he wanted to go to Nashville.

And so I just keep getting in these situations where in my head, like I keep saying in my head, because that's how crazy I feel.

In my head, everything's great.

I have no indication that they're not interested.

They're purposely doing these things to show interest.

And then out of nowhere, in the blink of an eye, it's completely like, actually, I can't pursue this.

And it's not your fault.

It's something that you can't control.

And it just, those same things keep happening, whether it's I'm moving, I got a new job, you know, I thought I had time for a relationship, but I don't.

And you're a really great person.