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You need to see what's going on.
So I just texted him.
I was very chill about it.
i was about to leave for a work thing too so i wanted to get this figured out before so i just kind of sent him a nice little text it's like hey like i'm not trying to like make you feel uncomfortable but i just kind of noticed there's a shift uh do you mind like are we on the same page what's going on or is something going on with you like are you okay and it wasn't until i said that that he goes hey thank you for being honest i really thought i wanted a relationship but it's starting to look like i just don't have the time
And what I'm about to say made me very frustrated because he said, I just can't give you the relationship that you want.
And I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa here.
You're the one that said all this.
You're the one that did all these crazy things.
How am I asking for something?
And so I was like, okay, understandable.
You're busy.
That's fine.
We can still just be friends.
But I just want to be clear because he was saying things like, I just don't want to hurt you in the future.
And I was like, okay, that's fine.
I was like, so are we like, I just want to be very clear with your intentions.
Are we done?
Like, are we just going to be friends only?