Azar Faraday (host)
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this is an iHeart podcast what do you feel like is the foulest thing that you've ever done on a date we we got into some type of argument for some reason and i was like what we argue like it got to the point i was just like get out in the middle of downtown as a grown woman you shouldn't be shaving your cooter you ain't never had somebody like play play with that maybe i'm moaning i'm oh yes
I think women do do that for the most part.
Women do that.
Yeah, I think women do do that.
I think that there is a culture of, like, more of a kickback, lazy style sometimes.
But I think that most of the time, most women...
like to get dolled up and be feminine and smell good and look good for their man.
I personally believe that a lot of women do that, in my opinion.
Like, just at all or just on a date?
Right.
Are you one of those like nails not done and it's like this is crazy?
Or do you care about like the particulars of things?
Like your nails aren't done.
Your hair is not done.
You're peeping it all.
You're clocking it.
You're clocking that.
Chipped is crazy, yeah.
I can't.
I love to have nails done.
But I will say that upkeep for women, women complain because they're like, that's a lot.
It's not as expensive to upkeep a man than it is a woman.
Like your nails are and your toes are these days like 170.
Your hair is three something minimum.
You're, you know, just like all your stuff as a woman.
You're not going out twice a month.
You going out more than that.
For sure.
Just anyone.
Like, twice a month is not enough.
People are going out here and they're twice a month.
Lace front!
Get that whatever you need to get to make that shit... I'm crying.
I don't think it's every weekend, but I'm saying like if you want a woman to upkeep stuff, it does add up low-key.
Hello, beautiful people.
But then you want to wax, so a woman has to get waxed.
No, it's different because when you shave.
It just doesn't hit the same.
I'm going to tell you that right now.
It does not hit the same.
Like, as a grown woman, you shouldn't be shaving your cooter.
Welcome to another episode of the Truth After Dark.
You should not know how to wax your own vagina.
Do you know how hard that is?
You have to look down, get into the lips, hot wax.
Like, who's doing that?
No one is waxing their own vagina.
Yeah, so don't think that you can just make shit up like, oh, you should be cutting your own hair.
That's easier for men.
Men can do that, but you're still not doing that.
Waxing your vagina is crazy, which goes into, have you seen the Skims has the vagina thongs that have coochie hair on it?
I'm your host, Azar Faraday.
You know that they sold out.
What are your thoughts on that?
Do you feel like that's fly?
Would you want your girl to be in that coochie thong?
The little coochie hairs?
Like a little fake coochie hair.
That's great.
That's crazy to me.
Like, who's buying those items?
Like, a lot of women did because it's sold out, clearly.
But then what's the point?
Like, because most men prefer, like, wax or whatever.
So, like, why would you want to see it that way then?
No, people do.
I know people who like different things.
How you feeling tonight?
What do you mean?
That is sounds crazy.
And you know, she also has the bras that are like a hard nipple.
What's up?
I think that's cute.
But I just think that like you, if you're wearing that though.
What's up?
No, because your nipple can't be hard.
But sometimes if you have a supportive bra, you can't see that the nipple is hard.
But the thing about that is if you're wearing a hard nipple, you're getting it cracking.
Like anyone who's buying that bra is trying to get it cracking.
They're not giving that.
A lot going on, huh?
You thought they was giving that.
Yeah, it was your birthday.
Oh, and you know what else they have now?
They have, Skims has it, and it be sold out.
They have the fake...
Hips.
And the butt enhancers.
How you feeling now that you really cooked?
Now I'm crying.
So would you get into a relationship with an AI companion?
Yeah, no, let's say, because you know how they have the sex dolls now.
Would you get into like, so would you like, let's say it's a sex doll because they're really realistic now.
And it's talking.
Because they are going to have that.
Because they already have them sex toys and they have the robots.
So let's say they have it and it's talking.
It's like, hi, Paul.
Hi, baby.
I'm Jessica.
What do you need?
Would you like some ham?
Yeah.
Would you have that?
Okay, daddy.
Will do.
No, that's depressing though.
Because then you're like, damn, I missed.
To me, if I go through a breakup and I get around any other person that's like supposed to be like flirting in a vibe, I get so sad because I'm going to compare them.
And then I'm going to be even more depressed.
I'm sitting here with this robot.
I don't have no command yet in real life.
That's because a man is different.
But so you don't care about, like, real emotion and real connection then?
You don't value that?
You got to get that instead.
Okay.
So moving on.
Okay.
So our girl, Joy Taylor, she said on her podcast, if she comes to a man's house that she's dealing with and he doesn't have extra toothbrushes and stuff like that, like she not, she don't love that.
Like she wants to go over to a man's house and he has the items prepared, washcloths,
products, everything.
And then she said that one time she went to a man's house and when she was over there, he had everything.
And then he also on his headboard had an eyelash and one on the floor, a strip.
So she said she loved that.
She was like, I like that.
He got bitches.
I like that.
Even they could still get shit cracking after 70.
Men don't have that expiration date.
Okay?
But this is what I'm going to say.
If I go to a man's house and he has all these items available, I'm going to second guess him.
I don't like that.
Because then it's like, you just have any woman over here.
Like, you just have all this available because you have other women running through here.
And I do not fuck with that because it makes me feel a way.
Like, are you just...
I don't even have fake lashes.
This is, no, that's wild.
And what if he had, like, pajamas, like, but not just a man's shirt.
Like, no, because a man will give you a shirt, but, like, actual, like, little lingerie dress here.
If a man has lingerie at his house, I'm cool.
They be doing their big one.
I hate it because that means why?
Like, you have women over here all the time.
Even Joyce said it means you have bitches.
I don't like that.
I like... Yeah, let me be clear.
Of course, like, I'm not going to be with a man who women don't desire because a man is... Men desire me.
Men be popping.
Women desire the person I'll probably be with.
But the point is, is...
You are just moving sloppy into me.
And that means I don't know if I could trust you.
I don't want to lay up and have sex with you.
Do you have something?
Do you just all these energies passing through all these women?
Is someone going to pull up here?
Like, I don't feel safe.
I don't feel like it's a safe space for me.
And I don't want to deal with a man who's like in that stage of his life where he still wants to be a player because there's nothing in that for me.
And what is the closet?
What is it?
That's crazy.
You know what's crazy?
And I'm not even trying to do this.
So let's get into it.
And I know you'll never believe me because just on the last episode, you said that I have a crazy list of men that I've been with.
But I have never in the history of my life went to the club and went out, met a man, went to his house and had sex with him.
I've never, ever did that.
And maybe that means that I'm just boring because these women are doing that all the time.
But I have never had that experience in my 34 years of living.
And it's crazy that you will go out, meet, because I'm sure you've went out, met a woman and you've had sex with her that night.
So LeBron was just on his wife's pod, and he said that there's a lot of ruthless-ass bitches, that's his words exactly, who do men dirty.
Like, how does that even happen?
Like, she's just with it and you just know?
Yeah, I know you've said that.
But how do you know that it's just the energy?
Because this is what I've learned.
You get with somebody who's did that with you, and you may think it's because you're special, but then you find out later on, oh, this is what you do.
Oh, you do this.
Like, this ain't nothing new.
Yeah, like, you do this, for real.
Yeah.
And so now... That's why we... Now you did it to me, motherfucker.
And you went out, you met someone, and I'm thinking I'm special and I'm different.
Because, like, I'm telling you right now, that's not in my wheelhouse of just things I do.
Like, I cannot physically do it because I have to have a mental connection with you to have sex with you.
I really do.
Like, if I can't feel that, then I can't feel that.
Now, have I kissed somebody when I first met him?
Absolutely not.
Have I felt that energy and been like, oh my God, like a kiss, a make out, a vibe?
Absolutely.
No, I don't think so.
No, I'm just playing with you.
I really don't think that that has happened.
Inner thigh rub for sure.
I don't know.
I'm going to be honest.
I don't know, but I don't think so.
I haven't come close to having sex on the first night ever.
Yeah, I've come close to any type of sexual activity.
Yeah, I have.
I have.
I have.
But it hasn't been sex.
We're moving on.
So anyway, you love to do this.
What was it that you did?
No, I'm not blasting.
I've already blasted my business up on you.
I've had an encounter.
I've had an encounter.
Not on the first night, though.
I've already said it before on the podcast.
Yeah, this one.
What did you do?
And it went viral and everyone still talks about it.
I'm not doing this again.
So anyways, back to what we're talking about.
I don't want to get into that.
I very... You went down on them?
No, like just get out of my business.
Why are... You're like so in my mix.
No, I was a young girl once.
But I never...
Anyways, why do you think that... You look cool, though, still.
I am blue below me.
I look good for my age.
Like, the fuck?
I'm only 34.
That's really not that old.
Yeah.
I'm only saying that because you were number 34.
Yeah, I know that now.
I know that enough to know that now.
Let's get into that.
And I'm 34 and I'm going to be 34 for a cool little minute.
So guess what?
You, my friend, don't have no, you can't talk because you will, whatever.
I'm still 34.
I'm young, in my opinion.
I'm not young, but I'm not an older lady.
We've said this.
I think that I'm not young.
I'm not young, but I'm mature.
Mature.
Mature.
Period.
So why do you think that, whatever, why do you feel that women are attracted to men who, like, have bitches, like Joy said?
Is it because, I think you already explained it.
You said you feel like women like that.
So Aisha Curry was on Call Her Daddy or some other podcast.
I don't know.
But I just saw this clip, and she was like, you know, my man, because he is who he is, gets a lot of attention from women.
And like a lot of girls and stuff like that.
And she was like, and it just is crazy that I don't get to have that same attention.
And I don't get attention like that from men.
She said that.
And people like drag her for that or whatever the case is.
She said that before a few times.
She wishes she had more attention from men.
And that she gets all the women's attention and it fucks her head up.
I mean, it's easy.
If you're with a man, you know what kind of attention they get from women.
Like, I know.
That's her point.
But Cardi B on Call Her Daddy, she just said recently on her thing, she said she feels like men respect marriages more than women.
And she said that men respect marriages because when she was married...
She would be around celebrity men and they would just be like, hey, Cardi, what's up?
They wouldn't be in her DMs and they wouldn't be trying to get at her.
But she said that when Offset was married to her, girls would be all over him.
Because let me tell you what happens, right?
Right.
Women, when they look at a man and they realize he can be a committed relationship man, they want him more.
He's more desirable.
Oh, he's committed to her.
He's willing to marry her.
He's willing to do this.
He can be in a committed relationship.
Oh, he's more desirable.
I want him because I know that he can be with somebody.
But I don't know how it is for men because I've never been married.
So I don't know how men respect the relationship or not.
And also, too, it's like, I noticed this, too.
If I have a man, and even if I'm out somewhere, and girls are on him, and if I'm to be like, oh, that's my man, that's just going to make them want you more.
That's just how women think.
They're just going to make them want...
Whoever that is, way more.
Like, it just is what it is.
Like, women don't respect that.
And even if a man's like, oh, I posted you, like, posting you or doing this or showing, like, acts of love just gets a man way more cracking.
Like, I've been with men who got way badder bitches because they were with me.
Because they were like, oh, he got her and we must be doing this and he must be getting this.
Like, you wasn't even that cracking.
And now you getting cracking women all on you and you're, like, folding off of that.
And it's really off the strength of you being with me.
So, like, it's... You talking about you personally?
Yeah, like, that has happened.
Like, you and men, it's like, it's not flattering.
Like, of course you want to be loved out loud.
We going back to this shit?
I wasn't 280 at that time.
People don't even call me by my name now.
They just be like, 280.
This is before I was 280.
Like, God damn.
So, or after.
I can't even say what I was saying.
Why did I need a mask then?
I think it's fucked up that you want me to erase a part of myself.
Like I was still a human being, nigga.
Like just because I was 280 doesn't mean that I wasn't shit.
Like I was a person, a breathing woman that was still on the earth.
dealing with people, loving people, taking care of myself, and making an impact in society.
Like, just because I was big and for any woman that's big don't mean they got to erase themselves and they're not worth living or being in the world.
Like, correct yourself before I get pissed the fuck off on this show.
What you mean is making a difference in society?
Because my energy or my spirit is always making a difference in society because I...
I'm moving on.
See, you're disrespectful, man.
You get on my dirt.
I'm so sick of you.
No, because anytime I talk about it, you want to talk about the crazy.
I'm talking about I don't want to delete that part of my life.
That's a part of something that happened to me.
Anyways.
There's a Harvard study that say men should ejaculate 20 times per month to reduce prostate cancer risk.
Do you think that number?
Do you think that's a realistic?
You always talk about these statistics.
Yeah, I want to know what these studies are about too because you put me on to really realizing these statistics are crazy.
But do you think ejaculating 21 times a month is realistic?
Playing with yourself sounds crazy.
So, do you think while you're in a relationship, do you, like...
feel like if you're jacking, playing with yourself, if anyone is playing with themselves in the relationship, the woman or the man, are you offended by that?
Like, let's say your woman is playing with herself, using the vibrator on her own, like whatever, like multiple times a week or whenever, however many times.
Is that like, wow, offensive or do you not care?
The reason I asked is because in my past relationship, it was like an issue of like, you better not use your vibrator or do anything on your own.
Cause that's crazy.
That's not a...
That's wild for a woman.
That's uncomfortable.
If you're not like getting into it too, then you're just watching a movie and I'm just... I'm just watching a movie.
And you're just... That's like out of control.
You have to be like, I have done that to where... Close your eyes.
I'm going to be over here in the car.
As a woman, trust me.
What you want me to do?
You want a man to be like, ooh, something.
That's fun if a man is like... You want the sound effects from him?
Yeah, like a sound effect, a rub, a touch, a look in the eye.
Yeah, you can still see.
No, you don't have to do that, but I'm saying, like, as a woman, you would want your man to, like, at least not just be like, I'm watching a movie, and then she's like, it's wild.
Yeah, because then you get in your head and you're like, a lot of women don't come because they're in their head.
That's like the number one reason.
And then it's like, for me, if my man is right there and I'm doing that, like, I want him to be like, are you turned on?
Like, is it giving?
Like, what it needs to give?
Like, I don't want to be in my head thinking that.
Make sure there's nothing in there.
So you just want someone to be watching the movie.
So saying something is going to turn you off.
Your woman saying something while you're doing that is turning you off.
It's crazy.
Like, what if she's like, ooh, I love that.
That's, be quiet.
You're turned off by that?
Like, what if she's like, ooh, yes, daddy.
Man, that's.
Shut up.
I think that's crazy.
I think that it is like for me, watching a man do that is a turn on for me.
Do you think that women or men have,
And I feel like it could be a turn on the vice versa, but I can't have a man.
I like that, actually.
And I've, yeah, I feel like you don't have to say anything, but it's just the act of just like, I don't know.
I don't know what I'm saying, and I don't know if I'm saying anything or not.
Like, I might, but I don't know.
are who's quicker to be able to, like, turn off their feelings and go cold?
But what about moaning?
Like, okay, I'm getting turned on.
I'm moaning.
Oh, yes.
Like...
Is that blowing you?
Like that's turning you off?
Because what?
Like you just want someone to just sit there quiet and watch you?
But what if she's right there?
Why not just look at each other?
Like, you know what I'm saying?
And also for women, I feel like men.
Why don't the girl do it?
But I feel like, you know why it's good for the man to do it?
Because I think that when a woman watches a man do it, it's like, show me how you do it to yourself.
So then when I'm in there doing different items, like I know your motion, I know your rhythm.
Do you think it's women or men?
So that's how like I've learned, like you can learn like, oh, I know what you are on.
Like, and then you make a mental note and you're like, oh, okay.
Like, just like you said, what would you do if I wasn't like the person wasn't right there?
Like you have to,
Lord, this is getting a little too extra.
I would say that, I mean, we did have a whole sex toy box here, so it's going to be all right.
I would say that I'm a clitoral stimulation person.
So for me, my toy that I use is for the clitoris and you vibrate on there and then boom, I'm going to come.
That's what it is.
It's a clit toy.
You think women?
So I don't know what it's called.
It's a vibrator.
I feel like women are more emotional.
But your mom, you pretended it was a back scratcher.
Like, okay, it really was vibrator.
Now, I don't do the rose, though, but it's like I do this joint.
So it's like this.
It has a hole like this, and it's like rubber, and you put your clit in the little thing, in the little hole.
It's harder.
Like, if I love someone, I can't just be like, I'm turning off my feelings and I'm going cold.
The clit gets swollen, right?
So when you turn it on, it gets hard and swollen.
It doesn't have to be huge.
You don't have to have a big clit to do that.
You literally... I don't...
You don't have to have that.
And then you could just put on... That might be something else.
No, it's not.
It's really not.
You literally... It's the same concept as the rose.
The rose is just like, I think like a tongue.
But this has been my favorite toy for a long time.
And you just... And I don't use it like that.
I probably haven't used it in a minute.
But like...
it is a thing, and it's like a little hole, and I think it's like a little thing in there, a rubber thing, and you put it in there.
For a man, like, is that cracking?
I've always wondered if that was cracking for a man, but like, if I walked in and my man was using that, I don't know how I would feel.
I mean, you can't... He like, damn!
It would just be like, damn, you don't even do all that, but we have... Like, this is crazy!
Yeah, that's too much, because now you're addicted to that more than you would have sex with me, and I don't like that, because it's like, this is giving a lot...
And I don't really love that.
And then, like, it's just doing too much.
I'm not going to be mad or whatever, but I just feel like, damn, like, even me, it's like, I don't mind if a man does that in a relationship and does his own thing.
Like, do that.
Get your shit off.
But sometimes you be like, well, save it for me.
No, I'm not doing that.
It's not cheating.
It's weird.
It's not arguing.
I have to think like you're strange, and I'm going to have to accept that.
For three days.
Like, no, it's not that good.
It's not that serious.
The sex doll is blowing.
The sex doll is blowing me.
I don't want to do nothing with a sex doll, in my opinion.
I think if a man has that, you're out of control.
Like, you are that.
But what if a man is like, I'm a nympho.
Like, I have a friend who's married, and he...
is like, he has to have sex all the time.
So like, he'll be like, oh my God, I had sex with all these women in one day.
What do you mean the get back?
Like, people have an addiction.
So like, maybe those type of people need a little sex doll.
Like, need a little doll that they could just get it off.
Oh, like getting back together?
You know what I'm saying?
Anyways, that was really after dark.
We got to move on from that for a second.
Do you think, but this is on like brand.
Do you think that sex can actually save a relationship that's falling apart?
It's because the man is blagging and pleading and he's initiating.
You know how, like, when people are fighting and they have makeup sex and stuff and, like, they use sex to kind of... That's like a band-aid, I think.
Yeah.
I mean, let's just say you guys are just arguing all the time and then you're like, okay, I'm going to use sex.
Like, every time we argue, I'm just bending down to my knees and I'm getting cracky.
I'm saying, but what if it's like other stuff and you guys are just going through stuff?
Yeah, like whatever.
Yeah, kids, right?
Like things.
But is it because the man is doing the wronging and that's why he asked me to do all the get backs?
Yeah.
And you know who does that a lot?
Baby mom and baby dads.
Because they're like, we would never be together if we don't work, but I love the sex because it's this.
It's toxic.
It's passion.
It's giving.
That's what people do a lot in that baby daddy, baby mama situation.
Yeah.
And that's what you'd be having to look out for because it's familiar.
You guys already know each other's bodies.
You know what's going on.
And then you're just like, okay, cool.
I'm going to run that.
Yeah.
To me, it's like if you, me, I'm telling you right now, if I'm having sex with anybody else, I don't fuck with the person I'm with.
Because when I'm with someone, I'm very into that person.
I'm very like, this is my person.
I'm thirsty for them.
I'm like on them.
If I'm like doing that, that means like I'm not, like I can't have a sexual connection with someone that I don't fuck with.
Like I just don't.
And to me, like I never had sex with an ex on some like, oh, we're just going to become fuck buddies now because we like the sex.
Because I don't like the sex as soon as I don't like you.
That shit is out the window for me.
I don't want to see you.
I don't want to look at you.
I'm very cut dry.
If I'm fucking with you, I'm rocking with you.
If I'm not, I'm done.
I'm very cut and dry.
But it's just like, men are doing the get back because they're the ones dogging the women most of the time, don't you think?
Yeah, the baby mama, baby daddy thing.
I never had that.
And that's the difference.
And I do think if I did have that situation, I really do think, though, that I would be very cut and dry.
Yeah, I'm very kind of dry.
Don't hit me up about nothing other than the kids.
Don't be calling my phone.
Don't be texting me little slick shit.
Like, we should not be talking about nothing.
And I know that I would be that way because I'm very much like that.
Like, if I'm with you in a relationship, that means I'm really locked in and you really got me.
And that's because what is the woman going to be doing the get back, but you're the one who fucked up?
For Valentine's Day, you're going to get a gift to your baby moms or baby dads?
Are you mind gone?
No, I'm getting gifts for the kids.
We are not getting gifts for each other.
That's out.
And let me tell you this.
Another thing that I always say is like there's things that could be forgiven in a relationship.
I think one thing that I couldn't forgive in a relationship is someone cheating with their their baby mom, their baby like or.
But yeah, the mother of their child, because that's not going to ever be I'll never feel safe.
That don't make sense.
Because it's right there and it's always going to be right there.
So, if you cheated on that, then it's over for me.
I'm begging to get you back, but you cheated on me yesterday.
Like, because I can't ever get past that, honestly.
Because now I know you have to see this person, you have to deal with this person, you have to go around this person.
And how do I know that you're not doing that?
Like, I'll never feel safe.
That's one thing.
Like, I always say, like, I'll forgive a lot of stuff.
That's one thing I know that I won't forgive.
And I think crossing that line is like, why are y'all buying each other gifts?
you should be getting gifts for the children, period, point blank.
And if the children are old enough to get their own gifts.
Like, of course you're going to do the get back.
Period.
Like, it's period.
Like, I don't think it's just about, see, people have to stop.
It doesn't matter.
Why are you not setting the boundary when you're single or when you're in a relationship?
Why are you crossing that weird line, whether I'm single or I'm not?
Yeah, there's a line within the boundaries of what you set with the person you're with, your baby mom or your baby dad.
It is a boundary.
I'm setting boundaries with them whether I'm single or in a relationship.
I get that, and I respect that.
Yeah, but you don't have to dog them out to do that.
That's crazy.
I still have not seen that statistic to be true.
I would never.
And if I was with somebody who did that, I would be cool.
And honestly, too, I get Mother's Day, like some flowers or something, like a card.
So what's the difference?
Because that's respecting the fact that that's the mother.
Like, cool, I fuck with you.
You're a cool mom.
I don't think you should be getting gifts for people.
I do think that men get caught more because men are more sloppy.
And I think that if I'm with someone who's buying their baby mom sandals, like that's blowing.
It's like 30 bucks.
I don't give a fuck.
I think that that's blowing it.
And I think that what too many people do is they wait till they get into a relationship to set a boundary.
And then the woman is like even more upset now.
Oh, you got in this relationship.
Now you switched up.
Now you had this.
No, no, no, honey.
We have boundaries set before I'm in a relationship.
Is it about the kid?
Yeah, I mean, that's crazy.
Yeah, that's crazy.
I think that's fine.
That's blowing me if you can't text happy birthday, Merry Christmas.
They change the routine.
That's just too strict.
You could be cordial.
You can have a fucking friendship.
Or not a friendship, but like, y'all are cool.
But I think that you have to respect the things.
Like, my ex, he was super boundaried up with his baby mom before I even was with him.
When I got with him, it was an introduction of like, this is my girl.
She's going to be around our daughter.
So you just want someone to be, what if she's like, ooh, yes, daddy.
This is the daughter.
Hey, this is someone that I love.
I'm going to be around.
Like, it was so transparent.
It was so comfortable.
I never worried about nothing.
And it was very cut and dry.
This is it.
Like, boom, boom, boom.
There's no nothing.
And I felt very cool in that situation when it came to that.
But I feel like some people, they blur the lines and they don't set that boundary ahead of time.
So a woman is pissed.
Because I'm going to be pissed.
Like, damn, you got with this girl.
Now I can't get no sandals.
Like, I'm going to say my little slick shit.
Like, where are my sandals now?
Oh, she's a hater.
Now I can't get my shit.
Like, no, you shouldn't have been getting nothing because this is not that type of relationship.
This is for the children.
Set a boundary.
If the kid is very tiny and it's the birthday, I will get a gift on behalf of the kid for the mom or for the dad.
But all that other shit is blowing me.
And I'm just saying, you got to say boundaries to people because they will cross a line for sure.
And next episode, y'all having sex.
Anyways, that was a great episode.
I feel like we did our big one.
There was more stuff to discuss, but we'll have to cover it next time because we be chopping.
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We have a lot of good shit coming.
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But I think that it goes both ways.
I feel like with men, they hold on to things, which makes it worse.
I think at least a woman is just like, we'll ask, we'll communicate, we'll have that conversation.
Shut up.
You know what I mean?
And I think men harp by holding on to it and then they create resentment.
No, but men be bringing shit up and trying to throw shit in your face too, just like a woman does.
Every time you know what to do.
Every time.
I don't feel like women cheat more than men.
I still cannot get behind that.
I'ma keep it real and I'ma stand tall on that and ten toes down because I have yet to see a whole bunch of women cheating.
Like, I don't believe that.
Like, I don't see a whole bunch of women cheating all the time.
Like, I think women do cheat and I think they get away with it a lot more slicker and quicker than men.
And I've said that before.
But I still think that men might have women beat with that one.
Because men have more temptations than desires.
I think if a woman is cheating, it's genuinely because she's checked out the relationship.
And she's no longer interested.
And she's just like, I'm over this shit right at this point.
He's done cheated.
Lord, this is getting a little too extra.
He done did X, Y, and Z. And I'm going to cheat back.
And I'm going to be like, I don't see why else are you cheating then.
Oh, yeah, that's deep.
I never heard of that, but that's real.
I mean, I've heard of that, but that's real how you put that.
Okay, so people are just in a situation because it's helpful to them type shit.
And still cheat the whole time.
That makes sense.
I could get her behind that.
I could believe that for sure.
So back to what LeBron says, what do you think the dirtiest thing you've ever heard a woman do to a man or a woman do to you?
Like, what do you feel like is like bottom of the barrel?
Would you get into a relationship with an AI companion?
Facts.
That's the bottom of the barrel for me, too.
We never talked about it on the show, but, yeah, we have talked about that.
It covers everything.
Yeah, for sure.
And if you're willing to steal, what else are you willing to do?
Like, that's dirty.
Yeah, I agree 100%.
What do you feel like is the foulest thing that you've ever done on a date?
Like, have you ever left someone mid-meal or, like, just decided, like, you're not going to?
Like, you know, have you ever walked out on someone on a date and been like, you know what, I'm not, I'm not, I'm leaving?
Or have you ever decided like, oh, I'm going to make this girl pay for the dinner?
Have you ever done anything of that nature?
Yeah, a lot.
You've done that?
And this was a day?
This was a day.
You kicked her out in a dark alley downtown L.A.?
Why would you?
That's foul.
It was like super disrespectful.
You just got up and walked out?
And just left her with the bill and everything?
What was said?
I mean, you can't... He like, damn!
What made you do that?
It would just be like, damn, you don't even do all that, but we have... This is the taking over the game.
Because she came in a sweatsuit and you felt like it was disrespectful.
I got to bounce.
Damn, that's cold-blooded.
I bet she didn't show up in a sweatsuit again after that.
No, I'm saying just in her life, she probably was like, yeah, I'm not sure.
She learned her lesson because of that shit.
I agree.
And I think the girl should maintain that with her man, even.
Like, you should want to look good.
There's times where you could be chill.
Like, but, you know, you should want to be looking good and, like, representing your person.
And I just believe that, too.
In general.
That's crazy, though.
You just walked out on her like, whatever.
Damn, you seem like you just be good off of any little thing, though.
For you, you're not feeling that.
Right.
Are you someone that's like, when I'm with my girl or I'm out on a date with a girl or like whatever, you want them to like, are you the type of man that's like, they need to be in heels?
Like no matter what?
No, but I'm saying like, okay, so not just first date, but like overall, like y'all go out and this is your girl at this point or this is someone you're just dealing with.
Should they always be in heels when you go out?
Right, but I'm saying you guys are going on your dates or you're going out wherever, like dinners, dates.
Are you one of those men like, my girl got to be in heels?
Right, right, right, right.
You want someone to look that.
But do they have to have heels to look that, in your opinion?
Jordans is great.
No, you shouldn't be wearing Jordans.
Like a fair, the movies and type shit like that.
Yeah, bowling.
Okay, cool.
I get what you're saying.
But you're like, if you're out with me, you're not wearing no sandals.