Barry

But the thing is, one of the things that that's most unrecognized is the daily, not necessarily daily, but not necessarily daily, but significant trauma events that we experience.

That is a part of life.

I mean, you can't.

You can't get through life without having ups and downs and having traumas.

And I think, Tom, what you point out, there is this time frame between when a person experiences a trauma that can be significant.

And that's very individualized.

Things that might...

roll off my back, okay, or Clarence or, you know, Stan's back, you know, might affect someone else differently.

And something that really bothers, you know, me a lot, you know, Stan, you might say, you know, Barry, what do you, you know, what's the big deal?

It happens to me every day and it's right now.

So the response is very individualized.

The other piece of this to me is that the role of resilience

is also is unrecognized as well, or is underestimated.

However, you need a tool, but what I'm hearing, Tom, from you, and I'll confess, I didn't read your book yet.

However, I did research on your book and I saw one of the interviews that you did about a month ago, I think it was on CBS,

talking about the book and this idea that if not addressed right away, immediately, you started to talk about this, people start to try and construct these things

to bury it, basically, to kind of get on top of it.

And so it never gets resolved.

It's like a volcano, you know, in a way that's going to break down and explode somewhere unless it's addressed appropriately.

And one of the problems that two things from a medical perspective is the ability as a family doc or pediatrician of identifying trauma that's significant enough.