Bela Gandhi
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I'd say we're more complex, like a great glass of wine.
We've been around the block.
We've had relationships, some good, some not good.
Maybe we've had loss.
We've had one divorces.
I've had a client that had been married four times, right?
Things happen to people.
And we all come in with these wounds, right?
And some of the wounds are just being human and believing I'm damaged.
I'm not good enough.
If somebody sees me, they're going to think, oh, right.
And knowing that that's kind of,
A common affliction of all human beings.
And it's okay to not know.
It's okay to not feel like you did when you were 25 years old.
The people that you're dating aren't 25 years old either, most likely.
I guess they could be.
Not typically the clients that we're working with.
And remember, our thoughts lead to our feelings, feelings lead to actions, action lead to results, right?