Bela Gandhi
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It's a feeling.
It's like when we feel something, right?
I've seen studies that show when we're in this feeling mode, we can transmit that vibe and that vibration five feet from us.
People can sense what we're truly feeling, right?
And if we're scared or shut down or we don't really want it or we're avoidant, people sense that.
People, if you think about it, we want complete people.
We want, this is why I use the analogy, the lid to your pot.
The pot is complete as it is.
The pot can do the job.
The pot can make an egg.
It can make a stew.
It can make meat.
The lid is an accoutrement.
It just makes it a little bit nicer.
We want complete.
I think that knowing that love is a total possibility.
I tell everybody it's a certainty.
And knowing that in midlife, we're all more complicated.