Belinda Bates

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241 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 19 Jul

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Australian True Crime · Shortcut: 10 Red Flags You're Living With a Dangerous Man · 16 Jul 2026 podcast

several times was he just using me to have a place to stay when he got out um because being incarcerated for so long and was I just that stepping stone yeah I just didn't really think about it until he came home which was surreal but I tell you what very very strong man he took on

You know, being a partner, living in the outside world, taking on my children, being a father figure.

Yeah, and he just took it all on and it's fantastic still to this day.

How many years has Pete been out?

Yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

So Peter's, like he's got a few digital books and there's a few free ones there and like, you know, how to say it so you don't misread it as a free one.

And then we've got 10 Red Flags, You're Living with the Dangerous Men.

So it's just all little points.

And I think what he's just trying to do from that type of platform is to just show women that, yeah,

These are the 10 red flags are just things to show women that if you are living with any of these, then this is the start of it, which a lot of domestic violence when you see your bruises and, you know, people can see it.

But this coercive control, which I have lived myself, is not seen and it's

And it hasn't been a big thing for a long time.

And I think there's just finding the pattern and the language that women can actually see because a lot of them say, oh, no, it's not me.

It's not me.

So like getting the out before it leads to death is the biggest thing for him.

Like he's so, so passionate about getting this across to women.

Yeah, look, when women come to me, most of them go to Peter, but when they do come to me, I do revert them back to Peter because Peter does do specialised, you know, Zoom calls or written stuff.

But because I have that experience also being one of the coercive control survivors,

I do believe that that intervention young in age is critical.

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