Belinda Bates
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241 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 19 Jul
Belinda Bates’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So that's when things started to happen.
So, I mean, he still had like four and a half years to go.
Yeah, like you had to be there, I guess.
It's just something that you just would have thought
Definitely, definitely had those thoughts.
Look, I think a couple of years in of us just, you know, seeing each other, communicating, going to visit, his intentions, look, I really believe that how he felt about me was real and true because not only did we see each other, have phone calls, written communication was a very big thing for the both of us and just the things that he would write I felt was real.
But it did go through my mind.
several times was he just using me to have a place to stay when he got out um because being incarcerated so long and was i just that stepping stone and being in prison for such a long time also he had to get involved with the world because it had changed so much since he was not in prison
Yeah.
And those thoughts went through my mind too.
But I just tried to push it to the side and just thought, you know, it'll be what it'll be.
I've come this far.
If I don't move ahead with it, there'll always be that what if and what have I got to lose kind of thing because I felt it was real.
Yeah, yeah.
Long time.
It was being selfish.
I had been in a domestic violence relationship, a coercive control one myself.
I felt like I had nothing to lose because I had left a relationship.
I was having a relationship from just a communication point of view for four and a half years.
And I felt that...
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