Ben Affleck
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And you found out that you'd get punched in the face and get your ass kicked. And that's not, and he'd be like, yeah, he kicked your ass. And you go like, and you get up and you come to school the next day.
And you found out that you'd get punched in the face and get your ass kicked. And that's not, and he'd be like, yeah, he kicked your ass. And you go like, and you get up and you come to school the next day.
And you found out that you'd get punched in the face and get your ass kicked. And that's not, and he'd be like, yeah, he kicked your ass. And you go like, and you get up and you come to school the next day.
and you know i mean it's kind of like a tough day dude that first day was so tough yeah like damn randy i know it's worse that you have to hear about it than like just getting hit five times it's like yeah you kind of get your bell rung you know what i mean and but it's the like that's kind of going back to that thing about like embarrassment like kids will suffer more from being humiliated than physically hurt for example like that's the shit that really is painful
and you know i mean it's kind of like a tough day dude that first day was so tough yeah like damn randy i know it's worse that you have to hear about it than like just getting hit five times it's like yeah you kind of get your bell rung you know what i mean and but it's the like that's kind of going back to that thing about like embarrassment like kids will suffer more from being humiliated than physically hurt for example like that's the shit that really is painful
and you know i mean it's kind of like a tough day dude that first day was so tough yeah like damn randy i know it's worse that you have to hear about it than like just getting hit five times it's like yeah you kind of get your bell rung you know what i mean and but it's the like that's kind of going back to that thing about like embarrassment like kids will suffer more from being humiliated than physically hurt for example like that's the shit that really is painful
But now I don't, I don't wish to be clear that on my kid, like you don't need to be fighting and shit all the time, but it's, you know, it is valuable to know that you can fail or have something difficult happen, really painful, or get your heart broken. Have some girl be like, you know, be like, I don't like, you know what I mean? Embarrass you, whatever. You're going to be okay.
But now I don't, I don't wish to be clear that on my kid, like you don't need to be fighting and shit all the time, but it's, you know, it is valuable to know that you can fail or have something difficult happen, really painful, or get your heart broken. Have some girl be like, you know, be like, I don't like, you know what I mean? Embarrass you, whatever. You're going to be okay.
But now I don't, I don't wish to be clear that on my kid, like you don't need to be fighting and shit all the time, but it's, you know, it is valuable to know that you can fail or have something difficult happen, really painful, or get your heart broken. Have some girl be like, you know, be like, I don't like, you know what I mean? Embarrass you, whatever. You're going to be okay.
These things are not going to kill you. And in fact, they actually do make you stronger. If you kind of go like, okay, that was, if I didn't have some of the resilience that I picked up by, you know, my early life trying to, you know, I would have just kind of given up or collapsed or had bad shit. I'd be like, Oh, you know, and I'd fall down and never get up again.
These things are not going to kill you. And in fact, they actually do make you stronger. If you kind of go like, okay, that was, if I didn't have some of the resilience that I picked up by, you know, my early life trying to, you know, I would have just kind of given up or collapsed or had bad shit. I'd be like, Oh, you know, and I'd fall down and never get up again.
These things are not going to kill you. And in fact, they actually do make you stronger. If you kind of go like, okay, that was, if I didn't have some of the resilience that I picked up by, you know, my early life trying to, you know, I would have just kind of given up or collapsed or had bad shit. I'd be like, Oh, you know, and I'd fall down and never get up again.
Here's the thing, getting better at anything really never feels good. Like if you're building resilience, it's not a time that you're liking, you know what I mean? It doesn't feel good. Like, so that's what, okay. I don't like this.
Here's the thing, getting better at anything really never feels good. Like if you're building resilience, it's not a time that you're liking, you know what I mean? It doesn't feel good. Like, so that's what, okay. I don't like this.
Here's the thing, getting better at anything really never feels good. Like if you're building resilience, it's not a time that you're liking, you know what I mean? It doesn't feel good. Like, so that's what, okay. I don't like this.
This feels like shit, but because it's hard because I can't lift these weights anymore because I can't, these other, you know, I'm exhausted and the other kids are still, you know, running sprints or whatever, you know, but like those are the moments for what it's worth where you're getting better.
This feels like shit, but because it's hard because I can't lift these weights anymore because I can't, these other, you know, I'm exhausted and the other kids are still, you know, running sprints or whatever, you know, but like those are the moments for what it's worth where you're getting better.
This feels like shit, but because it's hard because I can't lift these weights anymore because I can't, these other, you know, I'm exhausted and the other kids are still, you know, running sprints or whatever, you know, but like those are the moments for what it's worth where you're getting better.
I mean, the thing I really that I care most about, and it's true of all three of my kids, is that all of them have like an innate like goodness of character, like a kindness. They don't they're not trying to go out and hurt other people. They and they have empathy like they care about and respect other people doesn't mean, you know.
I mean, the thing I really that I care most about, and it's true of all three of my kids, is that all of them have like an innate like goodness of character, like a kindness. They don't they're not trying to go out and hurt other people. They and they have empathy like they care about and respect other people doesn't mean, you know.