Ben Hart

And then like other people are starting to be like, who's this dude now? You know, and TikTok was that thing for me. It was like, nobody knows me. Let me just say the shit I want to say and test it out there. And then when I did that, you know, after like nine, 10 months, then I brought it to Instagram.

And then like other people are starting to be like, who's this dude now? You know, and TikTok was that thing for me. It was like, nobody knows me. Let me just say the shit I want to say and test it out there. And then when I did that, you know, after like nine, 10 months, then I brought it to Instagram.

And then like other people are starting to be like, who's this dude now? You know, and TikTok was that thing for me. It was like, nobody knows me. Let me just say the shit I want to say and test it out there. And then when I did that, you know, after like nine, 10 months, then I brought it to Instagram.

Yeah, I felt like it gave me more. It took a while for me to gain the confidence to distribute it and talk about that around people I already knew. You know, like that's kind of the identity box, right? You establish an identity and it becomes a perceived risk when you're like, well, do I want to hop out of this box? And do I care? Why do I care? Which everybody cares to a degree.

Yeah, I felt like it gave me more. It took a while for me to gain the confidence to distribute it and talk about that around people I already knew. You know, like that's kind of the identity box, right? You establish an identity and it becomes a perceived risk when you're like, well, do I want to hop out of this box? And do I care? Why do I care? Which everybody cares to a degree.

Yeah, I felt like it gave me more. It took a while for me to gain the confidence to distribute it and talk about that around people I already knew. You know, like that's kind of the identity box, right? You establish an identity and it becomes a perceived risk when you're like, well, do I want to hop out of this box? And do I care? Why do I care? Which everybody cares to a degree.

And then, you know, there was a point that it came where once I started to get more wildly accepted, I started to care a little bit less. Yeah.

And then, you know, there was a point that it came where once I started to get more wildly accepted, I started to care a little bit less. Yeah.

And then, you know, there was a point that it came where once I started to get more wildly accepted, I started to care a little bit less. Yeah.

I think so. At least for me, it was. I think it is. I think depending how deep engulfed you are in an identity, I think it could be more risky for people.

I think so. At least for me, it was. I think it is. I think depending how deep engulfed you are in an identity, I think it could be more risky for people.

I think so. At least for me, it was. I think it is. I think depending how deep engulfed you are in an identity, I think it could be more risky for people.

Yeah, for sure. And that takes some time sometimes with people, right? Like different people have different, the way they absorb that kind of pressure or perceived pressure from society or their close circles. Yeah.

Yeah, for sure. And that takes some time sometimes with people, right? Like different people have different, the way they absorb that kind of pressure or perceived pressure from society or their close circles. Yeah.

Yeah, for sure. And that takes some time sometimes with people, right? Like different people have different, the way they absorb that kind of pressure or perceived pressure from society or their close circles. Yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

Quite honestly, I think it depends, right? But most of the women that do tend to follow me and the advice I tend to give, I would say from, you know, it kind of goes, right? To give you an example, I have one in my group that's 78. It does span a little bit depending on where you're at, right?

Quite honestly, I think it depends, right? But most of the women that do tend to follow me and the advice I tend to give, I would say from, you know, it kind of goes, right? To give you an example, I have one in my group that's 78. It does span a little bit depending on where you're at, right?