Ben Hart

I talk about it all the time, but like, where's the, what's the L you're fearing is that they don't look like you it's the, sometimes it's like the story that's being framed about what's happening here. And like, this story is like, one story is, Oh, if I try and I don't get it, damn, that's just, that hits me.

I talk about it all the time, but like, where's the, what's the L you're fearing is that they don't look like you it's the, sometimes it's like the story that's being framed about what's happening here. And like, this story is like, one story is, Oh, if I try and I don't get it, damn, that's just, that hits me.

I talk about it all the time, but like, where's the, what's the L you're fearing is that they don't look like you it's the, sometimes it's like the story that's being framed about what's happening here. And like, this story is like, one story is, Oh, if I try and I don't get it, damn, that's just, that hits me.

I think that part of the thing is that guys are so accustomed to failure in some way, especially when it comes to this, like they get shut down so much. Even the most like good looking, thorough, he gets shut down too. Believe it or not, he gets shut down more than a lot of women think.

I think that part of the thing is that guys are so accustomed to failure in some way, especially when it comes to this, like they get shut down so much. Even the most like good looking, thorough, he gets shut down too. Believe it or not, he gets shut down more than a lot of women think.

I think that part of the thing is that guys are so accustomed to failure in some way, especially when it comes to this, like they get shut down so much. Even the most like good looking, thorough, he gets shut down too. Believe it or not, he gets shut down more than a lot of women think.

And I think that if you redefine the story of like looking back or giving a look or just presenting yourself in an open manner or even just even saying hi, oh my God, I know crazy, crazy theory. But even that is like when you reframe it to being like, oh, I'm just going to be like a exuberant, nice human being. as opposed to like trying to like get and measure every little outcome of your look.

And I think that if you redefine the story of like looking back or giving a look or just presenting yourself in an open manner or even just even saying hi, oh my God, I know crazy, crazy theory. But even that is like when you reframe it to being like, oh, I'm just going to be like a exuberant, nice human being. as opposed to like trying to like get and measure every little outcome of your look.

And I think that if you redefine the story of like looking back or giving a look or just presenting yourself in an open manner or even just even saying hi, oh my God, I know crazy, crazy theory. But even that is like when you reframe it to being like, oh, I'm just going to be like a exuberant, nice human being. as opposed to like trying to like get and measure every little outcome of your look.

Like that doesn't make a lot of sense because of course you're going to look back at some point and the guy's not going to be looking back. What is that going to like put a thorn through your heart or something? Like what's happening here? This is just part of the thing, right? And like, it's not like women haven't always done this in the past too. They've given some eye contact.

Like that doesn't make a lot of sense because of course you're going to look back at some point and the guy's not going to be looking back. What is that going to like put a thorn through your heart or something? Like what's happening here? This is just part of the thing, right? And like, it's not like women haven't always done this in the past too. They've given some eye contact.

Like that doesn't make a lot of sense because of course you're going to look back at some point and the guy's not going to be looking back. What is that going to like put a thorn through your heart or something? Like what's happening here? This is just part of the thing, right? And like, it's not like women haven't always done this in the past too. They've given some eye contact.

They used to drop the handkerchief. Like all these things are very real. Would they always work out? No, but that's a part of the interaction between men and women, you know?

They used to drop the handkerchief. Like all these things are very real. Would they always work out? No, but that's a part of the interaction between men and women, you know?

They used to drop the handkerchief. Like all these things are very real. Would they always work out? No, but that's a part of the interaction between men and women, you know?

Yeah. And I get the fear. Like I taught so many women to say, now women tell me that they don't even look at the guys. They're like, They can look at the guys they're not that interested in, but the guys we're interested in, they just totally avoid eye contact with them. And I said, well, I don't understand.

Yeah. And I get the fear. Like I taught so many women to say, now women tell me that they don't even look at the guys. They're like, They can look at the guys they're not that interested in, but the guys we're interested in, they just totally avoid eye contact with them. And I said, well, I don't understand.

Yeah. And I get the fear. Like I taught so many women to say, now women tell me that they don't even look at the guys. They're like, They can look at the guys they're not that interested in, but the guys we're interested in, they just totally avoid eye contact with them. And I said, well, I don't understand.

Like the waffle brain of mine doesn't really get that, but I get why that maybe makes sense for you. But for any guy, like, I don't understand that at all. It makes no sense. And because of, right. We were talking about before, maybe guys have gotten a little more hesitant to approach girls for a variety of reasons, but you could argue, yes, guys have gotten a little, uh,

Like the waffle brain of mine doesn't really get that, but I get why that maybe makes sense for you. But for any guy, like, I don't understand that at all. It makes no sense. And because of, right. We were talking about before, maybe guys have gotten a little more hesitant to approach girls for a variety of reasons, but you could argue, yes, guys have gotten a little, uh,