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Ben Hart

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405 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

It could just be like, well, I just don't see myself getting down on my knee for this girl. And maybe...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

It could just be like, well, I just don't see myself getting down on my knee for this girl. And maybe...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

there's a lot of factors i might he's not gonna slam the door shut a lot of guys keep the crack open but they're not gonna like hey this isn't working out it happens but it's rare it happens but it's just not as common whereas a lot of guys will keep the door open and sometimes yeah they may find their attention going elsewhere maybe there's another girl that's taking up their time and energy and they're like okay well i don't i just don't feel over her as much but i'm not gonna be like i don't like you because x y and z

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

there's a lot of factors i might he's not gonna slam the door shut a lot of guys keep the crack open but they're not gonna like hey this isn't working out it happens but it's rare it happens but it's just not as common whereas a lot of guys will keep the door open and sometimes yeah they may find their attention going elsewhere maybe there's another girl that's taking up their time and energy and they're like okay well i don't i just don't feel over her as much but i'm not gonna be like i don't like you because x y and z

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

there's a lot of factors i might he's not gonna slam the door shut a lot of guys keep the crack open but they're not gonna like hey this isn't working out it happens but it's rare it happens but it's just not as common whereas a lot of guys will keep the door open and sometimes yeah they may find their attention going elsewhere maybe there's another girl that's taking up their time and energy and they're like okay well i don't i just don't feel over her as much but i'm not gonna be like i don't like you because x y and z

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah. The second one is very valid. I agree with you that he could have gotten really close, but not necessarily freaked out of success, just freaked out of the fact that he like didn't see, he probably didn't see a future. And he's like, I don't want to get any closer because it feels like, but also feels like maybe I should take a step back here. That's possible.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah. The second one is very valid. I agree with you that he could have gotten really close, but not necessarily freaked out of success, just freaked out of the fact that he like didn't see, he probably didn't see a future. And he's like, I don't want to get any closer because it feels like, but also feels like maybe I should take a step back here. That's possible.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah. The second one is very valid. I agree with you that he could have gotten really close, but not necessarily freaked out of success, just freaked out of the fact that he like didn't see, he probably didn't see a future. And he's like, I don't want to get any closer because it feels like, but also feels like maybe I should take a step back here. That's possible.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

The first one, would you say again, the first one that, uh,

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

The first one, would you say again, the first one that, uh,

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

The first one, would you say again, the first one that, uh,

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah, and listen, by the way, I don't disagree with that. You know, here's the thing, right? Like that could always be the case. And depending on the phase of life, depending if he has kids, like these things matter, right? Like you're talking about a guy who's like living in the city at like 32. You're talking about a guy that's like has a house and he's 55 or 60 and he has kids.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah, and listen, by the way, I don't disagree with that. You know, here's the thing, right? Like that could always be the case. And depending on the phase of life, depending if he has kids, like these things matter, right? Like you're talking about a guy who's like living in the city at like 32. You're talking about a guy that's like has a house and he's 55 or 60 and he has kids.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah, and listen, by the way, I don't disagree with that. You know, here's the thing, right? Like that could always be the case. And depending on the phase of life, depending if he has kids, like these things matter, right? Like you're talking about a guy who's like living in the city at like 32. You're talking about a guy that's like has a house and he's 55 or 60 and he has kids.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Like these two different scenarios and I want to separate those. But either way, right? Let's just say, and this is a classic example too. So this is good to actually talk about. Either way this goes, right? We can come up with theories and we can say, hey, this is the reason and that's the reason and that's the reason.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Like these two different scenarios and I want to separate those. But either way, right? Let's just say, and this is a classic example too. So this is good to actually talk about. Either way this goes, right? We can come up with theories and we can say, hey, this is the reason and that's the reason and that's the reason.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Like these two different scenarios and I want to separate those. But either way, right? Let's just say, and this is a classic example too. So this is good to actually talk about. Either way this goes, right? We can come up with theories and we can say, hey, this is the reason and that's the reason and that's the reason.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And maybe some of those are going to overlap to be correct, but who knows until it's communicated. So I value communication. I put it very high and I agree with you. I think that if you want to find out, go find out. And that means, hey, like you just said, hey, I was going to put your face in the milk cart and haven't seen in a while. Like there's nothing wrong with that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And maybe some of those are going to overlap to be correct, but who knows until it's communicated. So I value communication. I put it very high and I agree with you. I think that if you want to find out, go find out. And that means, hey, like you just said, hey, I was going to put your face in the milk cart and haven't seen in a while. Like there's nothing wrong with that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And maybe some of those are going to overlap to be correct, but who knows until it's communicated. So I value communication. I put it very high and I agree with you. I think that if you want to find out, go find out. And that means, hey, like you just said, hey, I was going to put your face in the milk cart and haven't seen in a while. Like there's nothing wrong with that.