Ben Hart

There's just like a fear attached to that, just like there's a fear of making eye contact with a dude. It's like, well, I don't want to not hear from him. Then I'm going to have to sit in my room and just pout for a week because I can't figure out what about me he doesn't like. There's a lot of associations with that story.

There's just like a fear attached to that, just like there's a fear of making eye contact with a dude. It's like, well, I don't want to not hear from him. Then I'm going to have to sit in my room and just pout for a week because I can't figure out what about me he doesn't like. There's a lot of associations with that story.

There's just like a fear attached to that, just like there's a fear of making eye contact with a dude. It's like, well, I don't want to not hear from him. Then I'm going to have to sit in my room and just pout for a week because I can't figure out what about me he doesn't like. There's a lot of associations with that story.

But either way this goes, you have to have enough kind of like yes in you to say, okay, let me reach out. Because I'm not the guy to be like, oh, just ghost his ass. I don't believe in that shit. Like if you're, especially if you're starting to talk to somebody and it's been like two months, like you're already getting accustomed to getting in the routine. What's the problem with communicating?

But either way this goes, you have to have enough kind of like yes in you to say, okay, let me reach out. Because I'm not the guy to be like, oh, just ghost his ass. I don't believe in that shit. Like if you're, especially if you're starting to talk to somebody and it's been like two months, like you're already getting accustomed to getting in the routine. What's the problem with communicating?

But either way this goes, you have to have enough kind of like yes in you to say, okay, let me reach out. Because I'm not the guy to be like, oh, just ghost his ass. I don't believe in that shit. Like if you're, especially if you're starting to talk to somebody and it's been like two months, like you're already getting accustomed to getting in the routine. What's the problem with communicating?

So I'm big on communication. So I don't disagree with actually both of those things you said. So like it could be he lost interest. Could be he's seeing another girl. Could be he's going through something. It could be all those things. And all those things are valid, but unless you like are willing to communicate, especially at two months in to figure out what it is.

So I'm big on communication. So I don't disagree with actually both of those things you said. So like it could be he lost interest. Could be he's seeing another girl. Could be he's going through something. It could be all those things. And all those things are valid, but unless you like are willing to communicate, especially at two months in to figure out what it is.

So I'm big on communication. So I don't disagree with actually both of those things you said. So like it could be he lost interest. Could be he's seeing another girl. Could be he's going through something. It could be all those things. And all those things are valid, but unless you like are willing to communicate, especially at two months in to figure out what it is.

And by the way, you reach out and he doesn't get back to you or he gets back to you days later, you know, you know, and then you can say, okay, well now I've put my best foot forward. I tried and now I can, I can just say, okay, well, it's not going to work out and that's okay. But at least you know that you don't have to live in regret. Like, why didn't I even ask the dude?

And by the way, you reach out and he doesn't get back to you or he gets back to you days later, you know, you know, and then you can say, okay, well now I've put my best foot forward. I tried and now I can, I can just say, okay, well, it's not going to work out and that's okay. But at least you know that you don't have to live in regret. Like, why didn't I even ask the dude?

And by the way, you reach out and he doesn't get back to you or he gets back to you days later, you know, you know, and then you can say, okay, well now I've put my best foot forward. I tried and now I can, I can just say, okay, well, it's not going to work out and that's okay. But at least you know that you don't have to live in regret. Like, why didn't I even ask the dude?

oh yeah big time like you know for the level of anxiety that a lot of women that i speak to have their fear of communicating exceeds that it's like there's just high level of fear associated with saying something that's going to scare them off i'm like what do you think he's gonna get scared off from your communication if he gets scared off from your communication he doesn't like you like that like we have to kind of make decisions kind of in some capacity right and like how could you even move forward without saying to yourself well at least i tried

oh yeah big time like you know for the level of anxiety that a lot of women that i speak to have their fear of communicating exceeds that it's like there's just high level of fear associated with saying something that's going to scare them off i'm like what do you think he's gonna get scared off from your communication if he gets scared off from your communication he doesn't like you like that like we have to kind of make decisions kind of in some capacity right and like how could you even move forward without saying to yourself well at least i tried

oh yeah big time like you know for the level of anxiety that a lot of women that i speak to have their fear of communicating exceeds that it's like there's just high level of fear associated with saying something that's going to scare them off i'm like what do you think he's gonna get scared off from your communication if he gets scared off from your communication he doesn't like you like that like we have to kind of make decisions kind of in some capacity right and like how could you even move forward without saying to yourself well at least i tried

I don't know. I think that's with everybody, guys too. If they have an inability to communicate something and they're not communicating, everyone would just be like, you're soft. What is your issue?

I don't know. I think that's with everybody, guys too. If they have an inability to communicate something and they're not communicating, everyone would just be like, you're soft. What is your issue?

I don't know. I think that's with everybody, guys too. If they have an inability to communicate something and they're not communicating, everyone would just be like, you're soft. What is your issue?

A hundred percent. And this is kind of like in your expertise as well, I'm sure, especially with the confidence building, you know, but a lot of it is that story. And I always go back to that because this is a typical topic that I always hear is like, well, that means this and that means this. We can all draw these assumptions.

A hundred percent. And this is kind of like in your expertise as well, I'm sure, especially with the confidence building, you know, but a lot of it is that story. And I always go back to that because this is a typical topic that I always hear is like, well, that means this and that means this. We can all draw these assumptions.