Ben Hart

And I'm going to tell you, a lot of people that are in that framework of commitment or one would call maybe wife or a husband wouldn't put up with certain behaviors that are not conducive for long-term success inside a relationship. And that means no long-term situationships. You don't need to do all this stuff. And they would communicate thoroughly.

And I'm going to tell you, a lot of people that are in that framework of commitment or one would call maybe wife or a husband wouldn't put up with certain behaviors that are not conducive for long-term success inside a relationship. And that means no long-term situationships. You don't need to do all this stuff. And they would communicate thoroughly.

They wouldn't be doing all this fuckery shit that I – excuse my language, that I always see happen. And then blame the guy because he was a narcissistic, manipulative dude.

They wouldn't be doing all this fuckery shit that I – excuse my language, that I always see happen. And then blame the guy because he was a narcissistic, manipulative dude.

They wouldn't be doing all this fuckery shit that I – excuse my language, that I always see happen. And then blame the guy because he was a narcissistic, manipulative dude.

An example of like what I hear?

An example of like what I hear?

An example of like what I hear?

Well, I was seeing this guy for, you know, this guy is nine years older than me. I was seeing this guy for six and a half months. And now he's telling me that he doesn't know if he wants to commit. He's still feeling things out. And I don't know what to do here at this point. How do I get him to commit? I said, well, you can't get him to commit, number one.

Well, I was seeing this guy for, you know, this guy is nine years older than me. I was seeing this guy for six and a half months. And now he's telling me that he doesn't know if he wants to commit. He's still feeling things out. And I don't know what to do here at this point. How do I get him to commit? I said, well, you can't get him to commit, number one.

Well, I was seeing this guy for, you know, this guy is nine years older than me. I was seeing this guy for six and a half months. And now he's telling me that he doesn't know if he wants to commit. He's still feeling things out. And I don't know what to do here at this point. How do I get him to commit? I said, well, you can't get him to commit, number one.

But number two, you stayed in a situationship way too long. You shouldn't have been in situationship. You should have required commitment in order to continue this thing at month two and a half, max three. if that's what you wanted. And especially, you know, it might be a little bit different, right?

But number two, you stayed in a situationship way too long. You shouldn't have been in situationship. You should have required commitment in order to continue this thing at month two and a half, max three. if that's what you wanted. And especially, you know, it might be a little bit different, right?

But number two, you stayed in a situationship way too long. You shouldn't have been in situationship. You should have required commitment in order to continue this thing at month two and a half, max three. if that's what you wanted. And especially, you know, it might be a little bit different, right?

And I say that, I'm giving a specific example right now, but if somebody, if a young girl says, hey, you know, I would like to have a family and I'd like to get married, then that is pretty much a line you should start to draw.

And I say that, I'm giving a specific example right now, but if somebody, if a young girl says, hey, you know, I would like to have a family and I'd like to get married, then that is pretty much a line you should start to draw.

And I say that, I'm giving a specific example right now, but if somebody, if a young girl says, hey, you know, I would like to have a family and I'd like to get married, then that is pretty much a line you should start to draw.

Now, if it's not that big of a deal, if you already have kids and he already has kids and you guys just want to find somebody to share your life with, the rules can kind of bend and twist a little bit. But at the same time, you should still be transparent and communicative about those things that are important to you. So that's kind of one situation I can kind of outline.

Now, if it's not that big of a deal, if you already have kids and he already has kids and you guys just want to find somebody to share your life with, the rules can kind of bend and twist a little bit. But at the same time, you should still be transparent and communicative about those things that are important to you. So that's kind of one situation I can kind of outline.

Now, if it's not that big of a deal, if you already have kids and he already has kids and you guys just want to find somebody to share your life with, the rules can kind of bend and twist a little bit. But at the same time, you should still be transparent and communicative about those things that are important to you. So that's kind of one situation I can kind of outline.