Ben Hart

Totally. And that's where I stem from. Like when I wrote the book, I've been in like the startup business world a little bit, but like, that's kind of where this came from. It was more like, honestly, like I'm not, I don't say anything innovator. Like it's really sometimes like my delivery is a little bit different, but like, it's nothing innovative. It's very, very like fundamental.

Totally. And that's where I stem from. Like when I wrote the book, I've been in like the startup business world a little bit, but like, that's kind of where this came from. It was more like, honestly, like I'm not, I don't say anything innovator. Like it's really sometimes like my delivery is a little bit different, but like, it's nothing innovative. It's very, very like fundamental.

Totally. And that's where I stem from. Like when I wrote the book, I've been in like the startup business world a little bit, but like, that's kind of where this came from. It was more like, honestly, like I'm not, I don't say anything innovator. Like it's really sometimes like my delivery is a little bit different, but like, it's nothing innovative. It's very, very like fundamental.

It's like very fundamentally basic. I'm like getting specific outcomes and kind of getting engulfed in the process and enjoying the moment and having fun and doing those things. And then I think that dating specifically for a lot of people is, is difficult because they've developed a structure around a lot of other aspects of their life, like their work and their school and

It's like very fundamentally basic. I'm like getting specific outcomes and kind of getting engulfed in the process and enjoying the moment and having fun and doing those things. And then I think that dating specifically for a lot of people is, is difficult because they've developed a structure around a lot of other aspects of their life, like their work and their school and

It's like very fundamentally basic. I'm like getting specific outcomes and kind of getting engulfed in the process and enjoying the moment and having fun and doing those things. And then I think that dating specifically for a lot of people is, is difficult because they've developed a structure around a lot of other aspects of their life, like their work and their school and

and their gym routines. Like there's a lot of structure associated with like, you do X, you get Y. And I think that with dating, there's not a lot of structure. A lot of people have this really unique Disney story fairy tale attached to how it should happen. And not a lot of people actually like to think about dating strategically.

and their gym routines. Like there's a lot of structure associated with like, you do X, you get Y. And I think that with dating, there's not a lot of structure. A lot of people have this really unique Disney story fairy tale attached to how it should happen. And not a lot of people actually like to think about dating strategically.

and their gym routines. Like there's a lot of structure associated with like, you do X, you get Y. And I think that with dating, there's not a lot of structure. A lot of people have this really unique Disney story fairy tale attached to how it should happen. And not a lot of people actually like to think about dating strategically.

And I get, I get why it's not an attractive thing to be like, Oh, what do you mean? I got to do this, this, and this. I'm like, well, you don't have, no, you don't have to do anything. But if you think about it a little bit more,

And I get, I get why it's not an attractive thing to be like, Oh, what do you mean? I got to do this, this, and this. I'm like, well, you don't have, no, you don't have to do anything. But if you think about it a little bit more,

And I get, I get why it's not an attractive thing to be like, Oh, what do you mean? I got to do this, this, and this. I'm like, well, you don't have, no, you don't have to do anything. But if you think about it a little bit more,

strategically without focusing on the hard truths of the details just strategically framework and then like think about how to progress that aspect your life like you know if you don't think about

strategically without focusing on the hard truths of the details just strategically framework and then like think about how to progress that aspect your life like you know if you don't think about

strategically without focusing on the hard truths of the details just strategically framework and then like think about how to progress that aspect your life like you know if you don't think about

dating or dating fundamentally with more purpose or more intention and i don't i don't see how you just expect things to happen i don't know no other part of your life do you kind of expect things to happen and i think that it's kind of like a rewire of like well maybe i need to put some focus on it because dating has changed so drastically over the last decade that maybe it's worth with the abundance realm of what of availability of people online and the attention you get how do you start to focus that into a place where you can start to get some momentum

dating or dating fundamentally with more purpose or more intention and i don't i don't see how you just expect things to happen i don't know no other part of your life do you kind of expect things to happen and i think that it's kind of like a rewire of like well maybe i need to put some focus on it because dating has changed so drastically over the last decade that maybe it's worth with the abundance realm of what of availability of people online and the attention you get how do you start to focus that into a place where you can start to get some momentum

dating or dating fundamentally with more purpose or more intention and i don't i don't see how you just expect things to happen i don't know no other part of your life do you kind of expect things to happen and i think that it's kind of like a rewire of like well maybe i need to put some focus on it because dating has changed so drastically over the last decade that maybe it's worth with the abundance realm of what of availability of people online and the attention you get how do you start to focus that into a place where you can start to get some momentum

in dating to your point by the way it's just very fundamental it's not like anything crazy no and i and i love that because it's doable and you can see how you've done it in other aspects of your life so why couldn't you do it in this aspect as well right and i just think a lot of people don't like to think of it that way that's my point it's like it's it's it's supposed to be romantic it's supposed to be gray and mysterious and undefined and beautiful and not so thought through

in dating to your point by the way it's just very fundamental it's not like anything crazy no and i and i love that because it's doable and you can see how you've done it in other aspects of your life so why couldn't you do it in this aspect as well right and i just think a lot of people don't like to think of it that way that's my point it's like it's it's it's supposed to be romantic it's supposed to be gray and mysterious and undefined and beautiful and not so thought through