Ben Orlando

And there's a big cost to that.

Yeah.

Well, like what's coming up for me as you're talking is it feels like a,

It's a great opportunity for mutual respect for a coach and a player in youth sports.

If you have these conversations and for a young player, it's like, okay, I trust that to this player.

They're contributing as much as they can to the team.

They're playing hard.

And if you trust that, then it doesn't matter how they react after a game, right?

It's like they could cry, they could laugh and joke.

But if you're trusting that, okay, they're putting forth an effort and they're playing seriously, then it doesn't matter.

If even right afterwards that they're joking.

Because it's like, okay, I trust you that you're playing hard, right?

That's our agreement and I respect you and you can behave however you like and I'm not going to judge you for it.

And so...

then there isn't all this pressure.

And, you know, I don't know how many cases of the yips probably came about from this kind of environment, you know?

Yeah, and that's going to unlock your capabilities because when you're anxious...

then you can't think straight, right?

It affects your concentration, your focus, it affects so many things.

So it's just going to help if you can relax as much as possible.